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commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
5 points

I can relate, my stutter keeps me from going out and socializing so much. I'm late 30's, in great shape, successful, but for the life of me I can't put myself out there. My friends keep asking me ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2022
1 points

You can speak to people. Nobody is stopping you. Your embarrassment and your stutter are different things. Yes, stuttering can feel embarrassing, but embarrassment also fuels stuttering. So if you wa...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2022
5 points

Blocks are bad because people think you're trying to avoid speaking....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2022
2 points

I assure you that you don't sound as bad as you think you do. Most people I've disclosed my stutter to have said that they wouldn't have noticed my stutter if I didn't point it out....

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2022
4 points

This is terrible advice. Trying not to stutter is one of the main causes of stuttering....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2022
3 points

yea but do you anticipate to stutter my mom always used to tell me that if i dont embrace it and always think about my stutter its gonna stick with me just relax your throat/vocal cords and speak casu...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2022
1 points

I can’t read out loud for shit. Reading is actually the worse for me because when I have a block on a sound, I can’t get around it. You can’t give a word a different starter sound (wait you can! It’s ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Genetic & Family FactorsSituational VariabilityAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2022
3 points

This is how i always thought of it; it’s like, they don’t know how to react and they think you’re doing it on purpose or something to that affect....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2022
1 points

My father is a covert stutterer like me… thing is he never told me until I was fucking 25, that hurt. But besides him, no one else....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentGenetic & Family Factors
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2022
1 points

I hid my stutter for the majority of my life, it’s possible you’re the first person to noticeable stutter. My gene pool is especially fortunate: stutterers on both sides 😬...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentGenetic & Family Factors
postr/StutterAug 22, 2022
2 points

I was afraid to start stuttering while in class

I was afraid to start stuttering while in class Am I the only one who was afraid to stutter at school and sat like a mouse? (school was hell af)...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2022
1 points

Thank you. But I'm speaking from experience. I did the work and achieved fluency. I was fortunate to find therapy that was able to help me improve my fluency. I was fairly severe. * Never a fluent ...

Coping & AdvocacyTherapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesPositive Therapy TechniquesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2022
3 points

The biggest hurdle in life of stutterers are these stuttering problem once they conquer it everything will be easy in there life. I consider myself to be a high IQ person who is really smart and kno...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
2 points

This. Any way to make myself feel better. When I feel good, my speech is better. I started exercising, reading out loud (to myself), meditating and breathing, getting out in nature, trying to love mys...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindfulness & BreathingHope & MotivationHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
2 points

Hi there. I'm a Solution Architect, and I'm in meetings most of the day, every day. I need to speak in meetings when called upon. Yes, I do block / stutter from time to time. I don't think anyo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2022
2 points

Im software developer and I'm changing jobs for the first time after spending 3 years with my first company. Here I didn't have to attend meetings if I didnt want to, expetially if they are in English...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2022
1 points

Regarding “the ignorant people” - Most of my family works in mental health and special education. I’ve often hung out socially with seasoned SLPs who had no idea I was struggling w a debilitating st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2022
3 points

There are many slight PWS(I heard the majority of PWS are slight PWS) or PWS who like hiding their stuttering, also don't forget comfirmation bias......

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2022
3 points

I think you also have to factor in that some people can hide it well and others may avoid certain situations where they stutter....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2022
1 points

Thanks for reading it. I wasn't directing it at your experience specifically but to the point that you made before about how sometimes avoidance is warranted and here in lies the paradox of concealmen...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment