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commentr/StutterJun 22, 2020
2 points

One thing that really works for be is putting words I can say in front of whatever j get stuck on. For instance when I get a call at work I’ll answer with”hello my name is Rudy how can I help you.”. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2020
5 points

As other people are saying, do "practice" and "drills" that involve your confidence and speaking with other people. Calling a store or restaurant and asking simple questions about the items on sale or...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2020
2 points

The more comfortable you are about it, the more comfortable they will be. If you're not in a good mental space to be comfortable right now, making a joke about it is the quickest way I've found to bre...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2020
15 points

For me, my mental space has a much greater impact on my speech than the mechanics of how I actually try to speak. Things like getting enough sleep, eating right and exercising have a positive impact o...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingHope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2020
2 points

that probably could be the reason. but I just thought the kid would understand better if its parent or sm1 it's close to would explain. Instead of expecting sm1 to step in for me, I guess it's better ...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterJun 21, 2020
9 points

Folks I just wanna let you know that...

Folks I just wanna let you know that... your stutter shouldn’t define you as a person and you should love yourself for who the universe made you! We’re all in a club, a super cool, compassionate, open...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2020
3 points

I should try talking to them directly. I was hoping that sm1 would step in at the time. no one did. I should do it myself. and thank you!...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2020
1 points

One day at a job forum, I met a recruiter and she adviced me to never tell to recuiters that I stutter, because I need to be confident, my stutter will not impact my job, people will just need to wai...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+1 more
postr/StutterJun 18, 2020
12 points

building confidence and stuttering

building confidence and stuttering so recently i started making tik toks about stuttering and openly stutter in them and it was so terrifying to actually do it... but i feel really good about it !! i ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterJun 17, 2020
39 points

Some people think that people who stutter are dumb, but don't let that discourage you from talking, please!

Some people think that people who stutter are dumb, but don't let that discourage you from talking, please! That is the worst and I feel like that is the reason why many people are not so open about i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2020
3 points

30-year-old here. I've felt the same way. Sometimes, I still feel that way. As difficult as it sounds, at some point you just gotta say fuck it and start enjoying your life. Try to make life easier fo...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2020
1 points

I'm late replying to some of these comments but just wanted to say thanks, and I find your advice helpful. It is easy to fall into an "all or nothing" mentality. Many of us grew up imagining that one ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2020
2 points

I really take similarity with your point about falling into old patterns. I think as people who stammer - we want to be fluent instantly 0-100 style. I would advise taking things (as in goals, eg. wor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2020
2 points

It's easier to be open about stuttering when the surroundings are good and decent about it. But not all people are like that. We should focus on those that are, though. It's important to pay attention...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2020
2 points

I would say it seems likely there's a sort of novelty effect associated with something like wearing a mask. But at the same time, I'd say this doesn't imply wearing a mask will always be a help, and w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2020
1 points

Bottom line, if you want to be a teacher, be a teacher. Don’t let stuttering hold you back or else it’ll haunt you for the rest of your life. I’m an SLP in the schools and I feel like it’s been the b...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & MotivationMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2020
4 points

I was reading yr comment and I WoW, after a snap flashback thought and remembring my feelings at these moments. Its 100% feels good when u speak when u have to no matter how bad yr stuttering was that...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 7, 2020
14 points

> So you’re just open about it all? Yeah, you aren't going to hide it over the course of the entire year. I teach high school. If you are talking about something awkward, it becomes less muc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic LifeMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 7, 2020
26 points

I'm not a teacher, but I do have a lot of experience with teaching large groups of people. Just like with anything else, the key is that you just need to be okay with yourself. You'll have good days...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2020
4 points

It's been a journey for me. I'm 34 now and yeah, I still have the days that suck. I worked out that tiredness and ill-preparation is the biggest factor to me having bad days of not being able to spe...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Energy & Biological RhythmsPreparation & RehearsalMindset shift