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commentr/StutterJul 15, 2022
13 points

If I could have chosen between gay and stuttering, I would have chosen gay. Sadly, I didn’t have that option, so I got stuck with both and while I love being gay (and i wouldn’t change myself to be ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2022
1 points

For me, stuttering has been a life destroying menace. ‘It is what it is” doesn’t mean the same thing to everyone....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2022
3 points

Stuttering does prevent me from showing people the real me, and it does so in two ways. First, is the obvious difficulty I have expressing myself through speech. Second, and far more importantly, is...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2022
2 points

My employment history has spanned retail to hard labour to aviation. My last job, and what I thought would be my career, was working as an Aircraft Systems Technician, or Aircraft Mechanic, in the Roy...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterJul 14, 2022
7 points

How to cope with stuttering

How to cope with stuttering I wanted to ask y’all, because I genuinely don’t know what to do. I always feel like I’ve accepted that I have a stutter, but then right as I do, I have a huge block when t...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2022
1 points

Most of the time they don’t really care. At least they don’t bring it up or anything. People in general have been pretty gracious for the most part, but there is always the handful that mock me when ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2022
1 points

Sorry, it's still to raw for me to be funny. I don't even stutter that badly anymore. Maybe it's the childhood of stuttering jokes....

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2022
6 points

I get it, We all want fluency. We should continue to work on the things we can control like our thoughts and emotions, our self talk and our breathing and posture. Read books, educate yourself. Findi...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingDisclosure & Telling OthersVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2022
1 points

That’s fucking funny. Not in a mean way, but if I started slobbering down my chin trying to say my name I’d laugh at myself more than I’d feel ashamed. Probably....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2022
8 points

You can totally get better and better at conversational skills, breathing and other skills that with reduce your stutter. Although part of that toolbox is not getting upset over your stutter and not...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterJul 13, 2022
25 points

I need to know

I need to know I need to know if we are REALLY doomed to live with a stutter for the rest of our lives. "Accept your stutter", "fuck what they think of you", etc. Sounds nice, but deep down I just wan...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2022
7 points

I hate saying my name. Luckily when I meet a new person at work Im typically introduced by another employee. Though one time when I stuttered my name at work my coworker was very rude about it. She la...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJul 9, 2022
35 points

Stutterer for 20 years, taking it one day at a time ❤️ My story.

Stutterer for 20 years, taking it one day at a time ❤️ My story. Hello everyone. I have just found this community of stutters just like me! I thought I would share my story. I started stuttering rig...

Community & SupportCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Personal StoriesTrauma & PsychologicalHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2022
2 points

All I know is that I was very confused and desperately upset, when as a little fella (5, 6….) I could see others speak away in class, with friends, most importantly at home with family…I did not under...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Loneliness & IsolationShame & EmbarrassmentPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2022
7 points

Nah man, immediate family are the ones that make you feel that you have embarrassed them and yourself, if you stutter in public. Atleast that what my experience has been being in Asia....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Family Support & ConflictShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJul 8, 2022
28 points

It’s so embarrassing stuttering in front of my family

It’s so embarrassing stuttering in front of my family I went to dinner with my family who I haven’t seen a while, and while ordering I stuttered so much and it was so embarrassing and they just stared...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2022
3 points

It's a complex thing to fully understand. My guess on why you didn't stutter while reading out loud with your classmates is because the attention is not thoroughly on you, when you speak alone, everyo...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2022
2 points

I feel you my friend. Unfortunately, I was witness to such situations in my family too when I was kid . Stuttering appeared later in my teens but I guess that played a crucial role along with other is...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2022
3 points

Trust me I get it at 26 I still block when trying to say my name or just freeze and I can’t say anything but I had to put away that shame and learn to forgive myself when it happens and not be so hard...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2022
4 points

I wish that were me. For me, in my early 30s, it’s still an instant moment of sweat, fear, and anxiety when I have to introduce myself. I’ve done it a 1000+ times and it hasn’t gotten better. It’s pro...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment