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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2020
7 points

I'm 26 and I've been stuttering since I was 4yrs old. I've come to a point in my life where I just have to accept and live with it and move on. All of us stutterers are gonna have to come to that road...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2020
1 points

Im not sure how old you are, but now I try to use my sutter as a power. If someone makes fun of me, I turn it against them. Tell them I have a stutter, make them feel like such an asshole for it. They...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2020
6 points

I think psychedelics in general allow you to tap deeper into yourself. They’ve helped my self esteem immensely and as a result given me more confidence to confront my stutter. While I’m on them though...

Meds & SubstancesCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Psychedelics & MicrodosingMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2020
1 points

Hey I'm not op and it's been a week but I'd be interested in the mindset you wrote about, if you don't mind me messaging you...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2020
1 points

I have a moderate to mild stutter and I've recently graduated and have been interviewing for graduate roles (5 year degree). Initially I got so nervous in interviews. I started applying for internship...

School & WorkCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerSeverity & FluctuationMindset shift
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2020
7 points

Just wanted to share my thoughts. Stuttering is fueled by overthinking and perfectionism. Yes. It's perfection to speak well, not related to anything else. Don't say you are imperfect and accept stu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2020
19 points

Fuck it all. Stuttering fuel is overthinking, perfectionism. Fuck it. We are unperfect and that is totally fine. We still can love, hate and laugh. Ez?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2020
3 points

In the same boat, my man. Stress, fatigue and ill preparation are my catalysts. But life is way too short to really give a shit. You're right, not caring as much does help. And you make a point ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2020
2 points

get comfortable and build self-esteem. be like, “yeah im all that” but dont be a dick. just be cool and chill. maybe thatll help you not stutter as much?...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2020
4 points

I resonated alot when you said something like "when you don't stutter you congratulate yourself, causing you to think about stuttering again, causing you to stutter" Thats a vicious and very frustrat...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2020
3 points

This is going to sound simplistic, but - stop doing that, then. Also, pay attention to when you get your point across. Remember that you can achieve it. This is all you're aiming for: To make yoursel...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2020
3 points

you would have not posted if everything when alright when you read the book? the way you react might determine how you feel about it overall. seeking relief by reading a book to people that to be hon...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2020
4 points

I had lots of breakdowns. I can relate. I can also see how your mom calling your stutter "interesting" can feel almost humiliating. Truth is its not. Your stutter is not a bad thing. But its impossi...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2020
2 points

Thank you for saying that, you have my support as well, and fuck people, whether they understand it or not, we should only focus on ourselves and ignore their perception, again, you have all my suppor...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2020
1 points

Old timers are not aware of what they’re doing to us, we shouldn’t lose more time blaming them or thinking about them, it’s time to focus on ourselves and get better, thanks for your support, you have...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2020
4 points

Phone is tough but it really goes back to your relationship with your stutter. If you believe its a hinderance when you stutter, it will be. And it will make you feel like sheit. It is possible to...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & MotivationMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2020
3 points

I’m sorry you’re going through this :( im super tired from stuttering too. Sometimes I just feel I have to own it and just think fuck everyone else. I’m tired of feeling sorry for myself. People nee...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2020
3 points

The more you stutter, the less you'll stutter. I recently became a lead at my job, so I have more communication and meetings to do. I still stutter a bunch, but not as bad as before. And I don't care ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2020
3 points

Gotta figuratively open the voice box and the dozens of muscles it takes to make speech, I agree, be in such a mood where u feel u control your stutter...

Coping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Mindset shiftPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2020
1 points

I was and am a hard head. He needs to want to get rid of his stutter. How to do that? I have no idea. Some people say read out loud. Other say go to speech therapy. Many say sing. The truth is that wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightMindset shift