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commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
2 points

There are treatments but unfortunately no cure. And the treatments vary according to the individual. I wish I could have accepted my stutter better when I was younger, instead of avoidance, frustra...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
1 points

Sometimes the worst part, is you THINK you DON’T stutter, but you look the video and feel so ashamed about yourself...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
4 points

I feel you. Honestly, most of the time I make the jokes about myself to hide my miserable insecurity about my stutter. It’s my defense mechanism I guess. It makes me feel like nobody can offend me or ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2022
31 points

me when I wake up, feel pretty, but then I remember that I stutter 😕...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2022
6 points

I’ve been in a similar place! When I was a teenager I used to pray I’d wake up mute or I told myself I’d become a monk who doesn’t speak. Your relationship with your speech *can* change very slowly ov...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessFrustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2022
4 points

Yeah, especially when you're trying to socialize or you're trying to ask for something you need but can't say it. and it's embarrassing when you're just sitting there with your mouth open like a freak...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2022
2 points

I stuttered very hard on the first day of highschool while introducing myself, got really depressed over it, as the year went on people talked to me and made friends with me, nobody really cares at th...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
School & Academic LifeShame & EmbarrassmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2022
4 points

in my adolescence it was a constant volley of laughs so I have grown resentful of anyone that reminds me of those times, irrespective of their intentions. I would much prefer someone to just shut the...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterAug 22, 2022
4 points

I Hate This

I Hate This Ok so I've been stuttering for almost as long as I can remember when I was 5 and people made fun of me, at first I didn't care about who said what and made fun of me but now I'm very humil...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
4 points

Be honest. if you have questions for him, ask. Try not to be overly helpful. If you wouldn't interrupt or finish someone else's sentences, don't do that for / to him. But be yourself. Sounds like t...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterAug 21, 2022
6 points

I’m finally starting speech therapy! What to expect ?

I’m finally starting speech therapy! What to expect ? I’m a 29 year old female who has a slight stammer from time to time . However I don’t think many people notice. When it comes to my name that seem...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Seeking TherapyShame & EmbarrassmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
3 points

Exactly, after a certain period of making weird faces and making everyone uncomfortable, i just start regretting why i ever started this sentence. I jump at the first chance of getting out of it. Some...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
2 points

I can definitely empathize and relate to your frustration 100%. I’m not gonna give u the same old script about how to supposedly fix your situation because sometimes I feel like I’ve tried everything ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
3 points

Maybe 10 seconds but it feels like a lifetime and to see someone’s face change and look at you differently ruins my entire day...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
2 points

How does one achieve this mindset? Like not being hard on yourself when you do stutter? I've been trying meditation and to allow myself to accept whatever happens but I still find myself beating mysel...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2022
-1 points

This attitude is most likely going to only hurt you by make your blocks worse. It’s only evil toward yourself. How do you actually know they felt bad for laughing about your stutter? They could hav...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2022
6 points

I used to go to therapy years back. Maybe when I was 6 or 7 and I don't think it necessarily helped? It made me more aware that I was "different" in a way. And throughout school. I never had many frie...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Therapy ExperiencesAnxiety & Social JudgmentRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2022
1 points

That's interesting, I've no idea how I would react to seeing someone who stutters, as I find it so embarrassing I would automatically think that person does to, so I prob would avoid them, how...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & SupportSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentValidation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2022
2 points

I gave up a while back. Even today I still cannot talk to my father without stumbling across words and looking like an embarrassment to him. But stay strong don't give up like I did...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2022
2 points

Don’t give up man. Do your best to put yourself into uncomfortable situations as much as you can. Force yourself to talk to people on a daily basis and confront the shame. Stuttering is hard, you cons...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment