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commentr/StutterSep 7, 2022
1 points

*hugs For the record it is a soft spot for me also. I had issues with my kids joking around about it growing up , the joke didn’t work. It still hurt ; even though it was coming from an innocent ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2022
1 points

i like to think that i’ve grown to be pretty thick skinned but i’ve always gotten really emotional when someone references my stutter in a negative way so i completely understand where you’re coming f...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2022
1 points

I know how you feel. One of the reasons why i don’t talk to my dad as much as my mum is cuz he laughs at my stutter and ir sucks. It’s also rlly shit when people close to you (such as ur family) makes...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2022
4 points

I’m sorry for what you’re going through. It hurts enough when strangers, people who we don’t even know or care about, make fun of our stutter. It hurts much more when it’s someone we love and care abo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2022
7 points

Yeah you are right. My dad loves me i know it. He does everything for me but it just hurts cause this is my weak point in life. I take jokes left and right but my stutter just hurts in a place. Btw yo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2022
2 points

I am Muslims and we say Assalamualaikum when greeting each other ( it's compulsory) and it's the same for me because I can't greet anyone by saying Assalamualaikum which makes me feel so guilty and be...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2022
4 points

Drinking can't cause stuttering. For some people, it can make stuttering worse though. Others stutter less when drunk. Also, slurring aside, "tripping up" over words is 'better' than blocks and can b...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Shame & EmbarrassmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2022
2 points

Relate to all this except feeling embarrassed for my parents, mother was the reason why I became so introverted. In my teens while in her home country she disowned me cause she was embarrassed of my s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterSep 5, 2022
22 points

My manager can’t seem to help mirroring my stutter

My manager can’t seem to help mirroring my stutter He’s nice and I genuinely like him. The first few times it happened, I very clearly stated it was something I couldn’t control and he apologized imme...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterSep 4, 2022
79 points

broke down and cried in front of my mom today

broke down and cried in front of my mom today This is the first time I ever cried to her about my stutter and what it feels like. She came to my room this morning and told me to tell my dad that my co...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2022
2 points

Not totally accurate. I get hard stuck in blocks when I hold eye contact. When I break it, for whatever reason, I get out of the block quicker. I realize it makes no sense, but it is what it is....

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2022
3 points

It’s “eye contact aversion” due to shame, and is very common in stutters with hard blocks. This is where I learned about it : https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/stuttering-solutions-atlanta/id152...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2022
2 points

Yeah I tried but this toxicity can't totally get out of my mind maybe bc of my subconscious fears of stuttering or just OCD(I don't know if I have it). The origin of this toxic habit is my concern ab...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2022
1 points

I have two homes, I currently live in Bosnia and Herzegovina. My other home is in Serbia (if I remember it has lowest suicidal rate in Europe). I was suicidal since age 10-11 because of my stuttering ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2022
1 points

Where abouts do you live? I’m in the Scotland and September is the end of summer so I find that I start to deteriorate around then. Suicide rates (not saying you are suicidal) are highest in April (sp...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2022
4 points

It’s okay! I think we feel more shame when we stutter around people that we usually feel comfortable with. But you shouldn’t feel shame about it. It’s apart you and so you should live unapologetically...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2022
1 points

I close my eyes when Im blocking to avoid seeing weird looks...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2022
1 points

im sorry that happened to you 🥲 blocking in front of people is really a soul draining thing. did you manage to make any friends in the end?...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2022
2 points

I worked at a theme park for a couple years. At orientation they made us stand up and say our names and our position—the fucking worst thing ever. I blocked hard and everyone laughed. Good times. Sorr...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2022
2 points

Yeah, for the longest time I pretended I really enjoyed college, when really I didn't have many friends and struggled socially, not to mention the bullying....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingLoneliness & Isolation