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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2019
2 points

Late to the train but this happend to me at work. I am a waiter/bartender/host at a local restaurant. I have to pickup the phone with the usual; “Hello this is [restaurant] you are speaking with [name...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMar 22, 2019
3 points

Oh yes, the kicker is getting asked to repeat something I normally would actually stutter trying to say but managed to fluently say... 😩 So it turns into me getting blocked and making those awkward m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionPhysical TensionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2019
2 points

Seriously.. people think I'm rude because I'm not like "HI! My name is Ricky what is your name? Nice to meet you! how long have you worked here? yadda yadda... like look if i could say all that and no...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
1 points

yeah but if you get frustrated at your stutter the you stutter more, so it sucks...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Frustration & AngerStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterMar 13, 2019
8 points

How can I give effective support to a stuttering partner?

How can I give effective support to a stuttering partner? I don't stutter, but my boyfriend does. He gets really upset and frustrated with himself and quite often will just apologise and give up tryin...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterMar 11, 2019
15 points

Cluttering, stuttering, and muttering

Cluttering, stuttering, and muttering Does anyone else have a problem with cluttering? I don't think it's as well known as stuttering, but I think I have it on my bad days, especially when I have trou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & StoppagesFrustration & Anger+2 more
postr/StutterMar 10, 2019
15 points

Stuttering and PTSD

Stuttering and PTSD If you think about it, stuttering exhibits many forms of PTSD. It could also be the other way around, where PTSD can cause or worsen a stutter. Anyone have any thoughts on this? ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterMar 8, 2019
18 points

All my life I was told to get noise out anyway I could when I get into a hard block. After 15+ years of therapy I have finally started doing it. And its for the worse.

All my life I was told to get noise out anyway I could when I get into a hard block. After 15+ years of therapy I have finally started doing it. And its for the worse. I have always had really bad blo...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Positive Therapy TechniquesUnhelpful Therapy TechniquesFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2019
1 points

I’m okay around the people I’m usually around but I have the hardest time around my dad. I grew up with him paying so much attention about my stutter, and he is where I got my stutter from. Stuttering...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerGenetic & Family Factors
postr/StutterMar 1, 2019
3 points

How to Unblock ?

How to Unblock ? The worst thing about having to deal with stuttering are tonic blocks. Sometimes , i get these "micro" blocks. They usually last for half a second or 1 second. But some of the time ,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringPhysical TensionBlocks & Stoppages+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2019
2 points

Gosh I relate to this so much. I hate it so much and it makes me want to rip my throat out of my neck...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
postr/StutterFeb 21, 2019
7 points

Honestly, one of the worst parts of having a stutter is when people refuse to take you seriously because of it.

Honestly, one of the worst parts of having a stutter is when people refuse to take you seriously because of it. Like, if you ever get into an intense conversation or you need to stand up for yourself,...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2019
1 points

i agree with your views. for us all speech is the biggest issue.. it will stay with us forever even we think of all the positives about stuttering..... now and than everyone of us gets frustrated with...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2019
4 points

Thank you for sharing this thoughtful piece. I vaguely remember myself not stuttering when I was in my early days of school. To be frank, I exactly don't remember from when I started stuttering, but...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & PrideFrustration & Anger+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2019
3 points

I understand your anger at other people. We are all often caught up in our own lives to notice what is going on in others, especially when so many of us try to hide our problems from each other. Stutt...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightOverthinking & MonitoringFrustration & Anger+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2019
2 points

So true. Its okay to feel what you're feeling right now. Cry it out, we have all been there. But know that it'll be better one day. You'll have days like this but you'll realize that life is not all a...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHope & MotivationSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2019
15 points

I beat myself up, tell myself I am never going to achieve my dreams or goals. Act like I am total failure and just negative self-talk myself to sleep. If anyone talked to me the way o talk to myself, ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2019
16 points

I feel you brother. I have a mild to moderate form of stuttering and it has effected my daily life and made even simple tasks challenging and have thought about suicide every now and then especially t...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Helplessness & AgencyShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2019
2 points

For real. Playing drums let’s me express things precisely without having to use my mouth. It’s so fun and a great stress reliever. ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2019
7 points

Its okay to angry sometimes. Its Ok to be envious of others. Its ok to be sad, its ok to cry and let it all out. The only thing that is not ok is to get stuck in that anger and envy and sorrow. But ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness