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commentr/StutterDec 7, 2018
1 points

No need to be salty about other people having sex bro but keep doing your no fap thing and see if it'll actually work. What will actually work is constantly approaching women and regardless of your ...

Meds & SubstancesSocial & Relationships
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2018
1 points

Haha. All the best in search man. For me, stuttering sadly has stripped me off the need for any emotional attachments. Just too many rejections......

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Dating & RomanceLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2018
1 points

I'm in a similar position. I can get casual sex fairly easily but never a real relationship. Is that enough for you though? Nutting is fun and all, but especially around the holidays I began to really...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2018
1 points

Acceptance. Stuttering made me go MGTOW 😎. I still engage in physical only relations from time to time though. I wouldn't be this successful in life if I stressed over chasing girls....

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Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2018
2 points

Short answer - yes. A person who stutters can be a good public speaker. My stutter was one of my biggest fears going into law school, especially since I knew I wanted to go into litigation. I was so...

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Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2018
2 points

That is a great story, I would love to be in a relationship I think it would help me, but I have absolutely no idea how to 'obtain' a girlfriend. ​ I think a lot of people with communicat...

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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2018
1 points

Agreed, a lot of people (guys, mostly) use stuttering as an 'excuse' I guess. What they don't realize is that a lot.. and I mean A LOT. Of girls (admittedly, Im one of them even though I stutter mysel...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2018
2 points

No, probably because of my stammer I would rarely approach a woman outright. I had much better success in meeting women through groups, school, or other activities. Meeting girls at a bar through a ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2018
2 points

Online dating has definatly saved my ass. Sure, it's superficial and all that crap, but it beats trying to approach a woman in a bar or a nightclub. How big is your stutter? I'm somewhat of a function...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2018
2 points

If I didn’t stutter, I honestly feel like my dating life would be much better, but then again when the words, “I’m talking to someone else, or not interested,” pop up, I then wonder, “Would things eve...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2018
1 points

You talk about one of the things I worry about if I ever get myself into a long term relationship, because not being able to perform my duties as a boyfriend is something that terrifies me. It's impor...

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commentr/StutterNov 1, 2018
7 points

You're probably never going to have any luck with getting laid at a club. It's a very superficial environment - if you start stuttering the girl will probably lose interest immediately. You might be a...

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postr/StutterNov 1, 2018
8 points

Stuttering and dating as a man

Stuttering and dating as a man For us guys here, have you ever been the type to make the first move in regards to people you're attracted to? We all know how hard it is to approach someone anyway, but...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2018
1 points

My stutter comes in waves of weeks or months where it gets really bad I just tried not to focus on it too much. You just have to except that stuttering is part of who you are. There'll be good and bad...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Cycles & RandomnessStress & Fight/FlightAuthenticity vs. Masking+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2018
3 points

I've lived that life before. If you want to do one thing to improve your life get off of the forums. Lookism, SlutHate, incels.me, /r9k/, socialanxietyforum, r/ForeverAlone are all trash forums and yo...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2018
1 points

>But overall there isnt anything I can do about it. I just laugh about it and make jokes about it to everyone else. I power on and just say fuck it and keep going. How? Don't you feel "beta" abou...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2018
0 points

I know your pain my dude. Im 24 and my stutter gets in my way of my job every fucking day. I'm a LEO. I'm constantly interacting with people and speaking on the radio. Sometimes I feel fucking retarde...

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postr/StutterOct 24, 2018
36 points

i just realized the stutter has finally gotten the best of me and i feel defeated.

i just realized the stutter has finally gotten the best of me and i feel defeated. (sorry if this doesn't fit here but i just had one of the biggest breakdowns i've ever experienced out of nowhere, an...

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Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2018
0 points

Combine the divorce laws, #metoo, and the narcissistic personalities of lots of people it makes dating not worth the time for me. To find a good partner you have to put in a lot of work. Adding the d...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2018
2 points

My girlfriend was never bothered by my speech. We were introduced through a friend and started talking, which led to hanging out together. Learn to accept your stutter and understand that there's more...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride