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commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2019
1 points

Do u have a gf or friend girl? When i had bad day, usually i call my friend and we go out somewhere mostly i call female friends, because they better listener...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2019
1 points

As I mentioned earlier, I couldn't know less about you and your experience, so I can only share my experience with you and hope that it does something for you. In my experience, people's reactions of...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingFriendships & BelongingDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2019
1 points

If you don’t have experience, then don’t comment on it. Stuttering is *not* an immediate failure. And women HATE to be dominated during conversation. OP don’t listen to this user. Any *good* woman c...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & BullyingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2019
-1 points

Sometimes when i am very energetic and confident i dont block .Women usualy want to be dominated in the conversation , so stuttering is immediate failure . Now i dont talk from experience but thats th...

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Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2019
2 points

They might have heard me stutter once or twice but I hardly talk at all because of it..People are fucking judgmental and are not good at hiding it at all.. sometimes I can laugh my stutter off but whe...

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commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2019
1 points

Attraction (especially lasting attraction) is rarely about one specific thing or the other. It's about a person's "total package". Stuttering is part of your total package, and I'll be honest, most ...

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Hope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2019
7 points

Do they know you stutter? I know nothing about the situation, but its entirely possible that you're making a much bigger deal of it than they are. There's only one way to get better at talking to peo...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Dating & RomanceOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterFeb 2, 2019
21 points

27m Can't talk to attractive females

27m Can't talk to attractive females I work with a few and every time I think of something to say I get a block I can't get over so I end up just not saying anything to them.. I get a weird feeling in...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2019
1 points

How old are you? I'm 32 now, met my wife when I was 24, and I was dating and actively trying to find someone since I was in junior high (so maybe since I was 12). High school/college/graduate school i...

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Dating & RomanceHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2019
2 points

honestly, it seems like a big insurmountable problem (meeting a woman) until it isn't anymore. i'm happily married for a few years now and i don't think twice about stuttering in front of my wife, but...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2019
2 points

First of all, don’t think of yourself as less of a man just because you stutter. If a girl would rather be with someone else who can speak “normally”, drop her quick cause she’s shallow. I think the ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionDating & RomanceAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2019
1 points

In college I had a really hard time talking to girls because of my stutter. I remember this one girl I really liked and stammered my way through asking her on a date and then on the date I could hardl...

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Personal StoriesDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2019
1 points

This is tough, but as others have said if they already know then you may be over that hurdle already. For example, I’ve always dated mutual acquaintances who all hung out in a group setting first for ...

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Dating & RomanceHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2019
1 points

I did the direct approach and I've been married for 23 years (24th anniversary is next month). If the other person is superficial, conceited, or immature, move on. You want someone who will like ...

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Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2019
1 points

Maybe you just need to try approach people differently or try meet people in different settings. I don't know how old you are or where you're approaching people, but it's worth remembering that even p...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Dating & RomanceOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2019
1 points

Does that compensate well enough ? How do girls you approach in person respond to your stutter ?...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Dating & RomanceOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2019
8 points

I've rarely ever had my stutter be an issue with girls. Mention it upfront if you're meeting them for the first time. If it's someone you already know then they'll be aware of it. Some people will hav...

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Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterFeb 1, 2019
10 points

Relationships (Girlfriend , wife etc)

Relationships (Girlfriend , wife etc) How do you guys do it. How do you guys approach women ? How do they respond once they catch you off guard being a stuttering mess ? How do we initiate the thing ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2019
1 points

Obviously stuttering does hold up forming social relations . There is no doubt about it . Only way to socialize is by talking to people and we cannot express the way we want to without feeling embarr...

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Helplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2019
2 points

Flirting can be difficult because of nerves, but if they initiate it first, there's nothing to worry about and they should understand that it might be difficult for you, and if they do judge you when ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance