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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
1 points

Work hard at your job. That is what employers notice. Don't give up trying. My stutter didn't improve until I was 24. One commenter stated to work on breathing, I agree with this. When I did early int...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
5 points

Agreed… To add, we as humans are so result oriented. Instead, I believe focusing on the effort and work required to achieve the result should be equally if not more important. The effort and recogniti...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
4 points

Tbh as much as I fuccing hate my stutter, this really made me more faithful...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
4 points

I am really sorry it happened to you, unfortunately we need a lot of focus to maintain a good speech, don't be so hard on yourself please, we all have moments like this...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
1 points

47m here. It will def get better. You will find someone. Growing up with a stutter (and gay btw) I thought i was cursed with a double whammy. In the real world no real person cares about your st...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
1 points

Exposure to speaking situations is hard and difficult… but try to get experience so you know how to handle yourself in those difficult times. I’ve done it. Also, most people don’t really care outsid...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
4 points

In the burning bush story Moses says he doesn’t want to lead the Israelites to freedom because of his speech. He thought no one would take him seriously. God responds by saying “Who gave people speech...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
3 points

I’m not religious but life is how you make it regardless of the cards “god” dealt you. If you want it to be hell on earth it can be or you can make it heaven. It ultimately depends on the perspective ...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
2 points

I never thought the free will of the world might be the reason we struggle, So in your opinion because god loves us he doesn’t control the we are born even if we might come out with disabilities and d...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
4 points

Gods Timing not yours We live in a cursed world God didnt GIVE you this stutter. God heals in Faith Keep ur faith strong, dont let it slip. Stay strong you got this. If God just cured ever...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
3 points

Yeah I get what you mean. People ask the same thing when they question why God created a world where bad things happen to good people and good things seem to happen to evil or vile people? The root qu...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
1 points

Yeah I’m Muslim. I also thought about someone saying that about my life. I thank god a lot for everything but I can’t get over this, I thought this must be from jinn because it’s effecting my iman....

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
6 points

Don’t overthink it. It’s just a stutter. God may be testing you with it but I’m sure you’ve blessings too. I mean there must be someone who may look at your life and be like “hey they have such a good...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
13 points

The hardships in life can lead you to your purpose in life. Who knows maybe what you are experiencing right now will make you better at helping someone else go through something similar later in life....

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
2 points

As i see it, its literally a trial from god. I have a bad stutter when i speak with people but when i pray to god or ask him to help me, i never really do stutter. Maybe god wants your speech just for...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
2 points

Thank you for your words. You’re right, some people struggle to get a job and I should focus more on the bright side.🙏🏻...

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commentr/StutterOct 27, 2024
0 points

We’re often our worst enemies especially with this insecurity so don’t feel like you’re alone in this feeling. However you’re more than capable of getting a partner. I mean I had five in my life time ...

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commentr/StutterOct 27, 2024
1 points

I was stuttering bad to my 30s. And agree on last comment. Self improvement. Fake it till you make it. Watch vids and read books on making you better. And gradually you will grow and be confident. And...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2024
6 points

Hey there, I'm also 21. It's a painstakingly slow process and requires a lot of self reflection. I'm not all the way there myself, but in the past couple of years I've gone from being nearly mute when...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2024
16 points

Just put yourself out there and go for it. What the worst that could happen? If you get rejected, oh well they weren’t the one for you. I just got married a couple months ago and wife would murder som...

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