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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
1 points

Someone giving me the wrong food and I just accepted, because I knew if I said this was not the right order, I would have to explain and I was fearful of talking to the server. Don't be like me, my se...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
4 points

What do you think, for a person who has from time to time really severe blocks that are mentaly destrying me, would be a text to speech app in these situations a good option? I could image I would st...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Assistive DevicesShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
1 points

Not a competition here either I just assumed your stutter wasn’t as bad as mine, I apologize for assuming I knew your stutter even though I didn’t know your stutter and you didn’t know mine sorry abou...

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postr/StutterApr 11, 2023
4 points

The vicious cycle

The vicious cycle The pressure/ fear to not appear slow, unintelligent builds up soo much anxiety and nervousness, 99times out of 100... you stutter anyway and feel embarrassed. Then you descend into...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
9 points

Not a competition here. Also you have no idea how bad it is, neither do i about yours. But about the 2nd question, i would if i could. It takes soo much time to even get a word out just to be stuck ...

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commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
3 points

Great 4th grade story! I did the same thing- hid in a bathroom stall for the entire day. They had to call my mom to come get me out lol....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
12 points

That would have thrown me off too. Most of us. Don't feel bad. It sounds like a tactless asshole of an interviewer....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
13 points

It was fine until I felt demoralized when the interviewer asked if I passed out cards to people to let them know i stuttered. Then I felt helpless after that....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
3 points

Trust me, I know the pain. I just had an interview go horrible all because I stutter too darn much and the interviewers could not look past it. Feels like complete shot inside....

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
1 points

To me it was more about me bullying myself. With all the disorders I have I felt like a inferior black sheep and I also have a mild autism I did not know about until I turned 27 I misunderstood so muc...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterApr 11, 2023
1 points

Sometimes I think it's better to become mute at all than to face every day a strong fear and unknowing what awaits you and where your broken speech will let you down again. Sick and tired of this

Sometimes I think it's better to become mute at all than to face every day a strong fear and unknowing what awaits you and where your broken speech will let you down again. Sick and tired of this ...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
1 points

Stuttering changes a person's life and not for the better in my experience. I've been a life long stutterer and it simply sucks....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
5 points

When I was a child I'd tell my mom I'd trade a hand for free speech. Just because you have a stutter doesn't mean you can have any of the above you mentioned. To be fair, you are both more likely to...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
1 points

I've NEVER dated but I don't think I'd have that problem. I just have this fear that I'm unlovable because I'm a freak. And I'm also terrified the only person dating me would be an insecure loser or s...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterApr 10, 2023
7 points

Was any of you passive aggressively bullied?

Was any of you passive aggressively bullied? I never was really bullied. But I always felt like I was an easy target. And people/friends would just out of nowhere say stupid/rude stuff to me that I d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
1 points

I have the same. I feel embarrassed for them, cringe and hate them and myself. I guess It's an acceptance thing. I don't want to be a stutterer and it's so painful to admit it that I simply can't stan...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
3 points

I stammer doing both😭😭😭..i feel so embarrassed to even speak sometimes...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
1 points

I had a friend in college say “you’re actually pretty funny just takes you too damn long to get it out”...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2023
3 points

I guess that's is because the moment we hear other person stutter we are focused to hear how we sound, and it is awful. Usually when i record myself in a conversation I think: "that's how i sound?, I ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2023
3 points

I (33) can relate. When I was struggling with a word my dad would smack me on the head and say “spit it out!” And made fun of me in front of other people. This resulted in me being so ashamed that I j...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & Substitution