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commentr/StutterNov 16, 2021
2 points

Growing up I definitely stuttered worse at home but I wasn't comfortable with my mom. She was patient with me, I just grew up scared and at angry at her. She noticed I'd stutter more at home too and w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2021
3 points

> She doesn‘t know about my stutter Big kudos to you for trying new speaking situations and not letting stuttering get in your way. But I question if you're really accepting of your stutter like ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2021
3 points

Keep good eye contact. This might not be easy at first, but it’s very important. Listen to the content, ignore the delivery…...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2021
1 points

I promise you that other people notice your stutter WAY less than you think they do...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterNov 12, 2021
5 points

Wasted potential

Wasted potential My relatives ask me to teach their children They often tell me that i teach better than their teachers i don’t know how to feel about that all the knowledge that is wasted on a person...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterNov 7, 2021
29 points

PODCAST: stutter proudly

PODCAST: stutter proudly hello wonderful people excited to announce a new podcast called *stutter proudly* on the first episode, i recite a poem i wrote on stuttering, called "proud to stutter" (tex...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2021
2 points

Never fucking care what others think about you , it's your style of communication ,think of Marlon Brando (God father hero) communication, that's his style. Stuttering is disabling our ability to achi...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2021
2 points

I faced the same problem and facing it whenever someone introduce to me. I just shake their hands and say "Hi" but I won't tell my name. If he ask my name, I try to pronounce half of your name and go ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2021
2 points

Be vulnerable. Tell people that you stutter on your own name and they may be interested about that. You’re trying to impress others and it’s only gunna cause performance anxiety. Right now you’re play...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2021
3 points

Yea, I believe the same thing. That if we can say a word fluently once, then we just need to tap into that same feeling to say it fluently again. Even if just tapping into that positivity 5% more each...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2021
1 points

Familiar/friendly environment or happy/relaxed mood will reduce the stuttering drastically or eliminate it. Already we trained our brain to stutter Infront of new strangers/ nervous situations. Say "f...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterNov 5, 2021
29 points

Thinking about Stuttering

Thinking about Stuttering Hey, so I was talking to myself in the mirror, and I came to a realization; if I can control my speech around myself PERFECTLY with out a single stutter, why can't I do that ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. MaskingPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2021
2 points

We've all been there. What changed for me was when i decided that it wasn't going to let it stop me. Theres no magic pill. So don't wait to suddenly wake up and find its gone. You've got to make the...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2021
3 points

I don't think you quite understand how Stuttering works, i and many people have tried all of the things you mentioned and still have stuttering, it's very complex and not as easy as you mention to get...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2021
12 points

This is a common problem for me, and I think most people who stutter. I am 36 so around the same age and also an introvert due to my stuttering. Sometimes I might just tell the person right off the ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2021
2 points

Or social understandings and supports. I'm just hoping this measure is taken out to arise the awarenesses of stutter eventually being a neurological disorder instead of psychological disabilities so t...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Medicalization / NeurodiversityNeurological & BrainAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2021
1 points

Everyone. Then you won’t have to hide it. Which causes stuttering...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2021
3 points

I became a bit torn between the two. I think it is useful for stutterer to never stop trying and to never let stutter fuck his life up and at the same time it is useful to know that if he can’t perfor...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2021
6 points

Not a fan of labeling it a disability. I'm a 30 M, who had very bad stuttering as a child to slightly moderate as an adult. I hate to say it, but I think labeling it a disability is ultimately defeati...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Medicalization / NeurodiversityAuthenticity vs. MaskingPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2021
3 points

I did this during a college presentation, and even though a few people still laughed a bit (at least they tried to hide it), it felt better than a previous experience where I hadn't disclosed it and s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others