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postr/StutterApr 14, 2023
10 points

The life of the PWS

The life of the PWS Yes you can try to live your life to the fullest regardless of your stutter and it might even cure your stutter. You can try to not pay attention to the judgmental looks, of peopl...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
postr/StutterApr 14, 2023
1 points

Everyone laughed

Everyone laughed I(20M) worked my ass off to get into my dream University only to get humiliated here. I am a studying Computer science, I had to give a presentation on an app I made. I spend sleeples...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life+2 more
postr/StutterApr 14, 2023
29 points

Are we doomed in Life?

Are we doomed in Life? I'm about to turn 23 and the last 6 years I've spend literally rotting not seeing a way out. The moment at 16 whenI realized I was different to my peers, that people viewed me ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyStigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
10 points

Honestly just reading this I understand 100% this really sucks… I’ve had interactions where I’ve just cried in someone’s face after stuttering and just the disgust or awkward smiles people give is jus...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
1 points

Ik it’s there job but I just feel like me being this old and struggling with stuttering is so crazy...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
2 points

I’ll give it a try. It’s funny bc I’m just so embarrassed to go but maybe it’s time to try....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
1 points

I really appreciate that… it’s so hard tho bc I’ve been made fun of for so long for it. It’s hard not to feel embarrassed talking but I still try and try and sometimes I just feel like shutting down i...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
2 points

The first sentence of this post is what’s impacting your stutter the most. Embarrassment. The fear to be anything less than fluent. You have to come to terms with the fact that you’re going to trip up...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
9 points

I’m 30, my parents still act like I don’t stutter or it’s something that I need to “get over”. I used to hate them for not understanding. Now I realize they have zero clue how to relate to it or empat...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
10 points

My narcissistic parents always ignored my stuttering. There's no point in talking to them. They think that if I wanted to, I wouldn't stutter....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
1 points

I had cosmetic issues with my teeth growing up, which lead to bullying, which definitely made my stutter and avpd worse. But that’s not really a direct correlation, and it was just the way they looked...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
3 points

damn in one of my dreams, i didn’t talk back or said a word because i was afraid i might stutter or block— even in my dreams 🥲...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
9 points

Yeah. All my dreams are about me embarrassing myself in front of strangers/crowds/people i look up to. Can't even catch a break in subconscious state....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterApr 13, 2023
2 points

Everyone of you are wrong.

Everyone of you are wrong. Wanna know what happens when you try to be a hero? You get hurt, so go ahead! Go ask that super hot girl out and expect her to say yes to a person who can barely speak to he...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & BullyingHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
3 points

A severe stutter is crippling; the stutter itself is one thing, but that subhuman feeling you have because you can't do a basic human gesture is another. Great we can agree on this...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
4 points

I was once in a foreign country ordering food (absolute nightmare scenario), and I try ordering in English. Then the waiter says to the other waiter, in my mother tongue (little did he know), "oh look...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterApr 12, 2023
11 points

Did you feel this bombastic sad eye while stuttering in public?

Did you feel this bombastic sad eye while stuttering in public? *side eye...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
6 points

https://discord.gg/stutter <---- 1500 Stutterers together streaming, gaming, voice, text chatting. It is a beautiful community full of support and encouragement. We have people from all over the wo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
1 points

How do you feel afterwards? Do you feel like you have "failed" because you had to use the recording, or do you actually feel good? Describe me your feelings :D...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
6 points

Damn, that dream job really hit home with me, I take whatever I can get, and I am just now realizing it. It is hard but we have to not think so bad or critique everything. I am working on the same thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment