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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
2 points

24F, from the UK and stuttered my whole life, I’ve only met one other woman with a stutter. I started talking at 4 months old (something my speech therapist would later suspect was one of the causes...

Identity & DisabilityParent & CaregiverSpeech & Stuttering
Identity & Self-PerceptionEarly Concern & OnsetOnset & Life-Stage Changes+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
1 points

> Can you go into this more? Sure. I get comments from men who act like my experience with living with a stutter must somehow be so wildly different from theirs in many aspects. And sure, I bet there...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
2 points

As far as bullies, the best mental exercise I can give to anyone is that anyone who is acting overly-confident and is acting like an a-hole to you is that it’s important to remember, they are just hid...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Stigma & BullyingHope & MotivationFluency Techniques+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
1 points

>I'm glad to hear that you've come to realize your opinions were harmful and dismissive and that you were open to changing that. Yes. I'm glad the OP posted this and brought this to my attention. I'v...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & BullyingFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
2 points

knowing what I know now I regret not punching my bullies in the teeth. good for you on that one. I am more trained than all the kids who work in my department and management treats me like I know les...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingEmployment & CareerHope & Motivation+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
3 points

I would prefer they don’t get posted at all. But I don’t think those posts should be banned or anything. The natural conclusion to realizing you’ve unknowingly been hurting feelings, is to adjust wh...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & BullyingFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
3 points

I'm glad to hear that you've come to realize your opinions were harmful and dismissive and that you were open to changing that. Even taking dating aside since that has been covered, stuttering can b...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
9 points

Yes. Many men here will talk as though being a woman that stutters is not a real problem, and it's such utter horseshite. It is so dismissive, which sucks extra because they should understand exactl...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
23 points

Yeah, there's a definite male-centered vibe to the majority of these posts, even bordering on incelism at its worst. its not great....

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
1 points

My AF recruiter tried to discourage me from proceeding with the enlistment process by telling me another stutterur didn't get passed MEPS. I gave up. I guess I didn't want it bad enough, because a fe...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
3 points

Its so unfortunate the recruiters were so unkind and uneducated. There are stutteres in the military. The organizer of the Facebook group ‘Treatment for Stuttering Support Group’ was trained in IT by...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
1 points

I relate with this, I had an ableist teacher in middle school when students were picking groups obviously I was left out because of my severe stammer people thought I was stupid but the project was ab...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingSchool & Academic LifeShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
2 points

It’s an isolating feeling and we are 1% of the population we cannot find those like us in job places nor colleges...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Loneliness & IsolationStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
2 points

I relate with what you had said, I wanted to join the military but after seeing posts of stutters experiencing how their recruiters said “are you retarded”, “how did you even pass boot camp?” And tbh ...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
1 points

Stuttering isn’t really the problem. It’s society’s stigma towards it. So it’s best to explain that you stutter so that way, you can give your speeches without worrying about what your audience may be...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyCommunity & Support
Stigma & BullyingSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
7 points

Yeah, in first world countries at least people can hire you for the disability quota or whatever, people that have difficulties can have a chance and get help, i'm in the sixth country with the most s...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerStigma & BullyingLoneliness & Isolation+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
9 points

Actually I see super strong and resilient people on this sub. We are dealing with a disability that is not recognized as such because we are not in a wheelchair. We can't talk to anyone in our lives a...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingValidation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
19 points

It's unrealistic to not consider severe stuttering as a serious issue , it's not only affecting your social life but also your career and making a living. And you are totally doomed if you are in a ...

Causes & VariabilitySchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationEmployment & CareerQuality of Life+2 more
postr/StutterMar 3, 2024
3 points

Was my 8th grade math teacher ableist?

Was my 8th grade math teacher ableist? I am currently a sophomore in high school as of March 2024. Just now have I started thinking about this story again and wondering whether my math teacher from ei...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterMar 2, 2024
1 points

Name and Shame: Florida Man’s Toys

Name and Shame: Florida Man’s Toys I would like to start by saying that this has been the worst experience I have had with a store or a business owner in my entire life. The disrespect crossed a line...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingEmployment & Career