> Can you go into this more? Sure. I get comments from men who act like my experience with living with a stutter must somehow be so wildly different from theirs in many aspects. And sure, I bet there are some nuances and differences in some aspects, but overall at the end of the day we're all *humans* struggling with the same thing. The thing that would mostly separate people wouldn't be if they are a man or a woman with a stutter, it would be the severity of the stutter. The fact that so many men just seem baffled by a woman with a stutter's experiences as though they must be alien and so foreign to their own as to need a special explanation is frustrating. > I can't think of any logical reason why any rational man could think this. And yet, a lot of them do. Not all of course, but I've seen plenty of them here that clearly think this. > In fact it might be even worse due to female to female dynamics ie. gossip being directed at you and not being able to explain yourself in the moment, exclusion from the friend group/ isolation, feeling like you can't call up your home gurls. From understanding, being able to chat with your girlfriends for hours on end and building / maintaining strong relationships is a huge part of the female experience? Oh my god.