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commentr/StutterSep 8, 2023
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I felt this IMMENSELY. Today was my first day and I stuttered on my name and my birth sign. They seemed nice enough it’s just embarrassing. Idk if it’ll work for you, seeing as how you always meet ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterSep 7, 2023
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It sucks that I stutter on my name

It sucks that I stutter on my name So I'm part of a local community group and we have monthly meetings. At each meeting we have been introducing ourselves. It's stressful for me but I've pushed myself...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2023
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**"For people to stare at me when I have a block? For people to treat me as if a had a learning disablility"** Damn bro, i feel this so much. 22M, ive overheard people talk about me when i leave ...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterSep 7, 2023
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People think I lie

People think I lie Does this happen to anyone else? Every time I stutter while trying to say something important people always think that I'm lying and it's very frustrating....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2023
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I've had people say "I thought you were "slow" but you just stutter. The blocks and head nodding make me look like I'm having a seizure or stroke so you're not alone....

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2023
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This recently just happened to me, too. It coincided with a “big” birthday recently, and upset me pretty badly for an entire day bc I realized it’s plausible people will think I have cognitive issues ...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterSep 4, 2023
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😞

😞 there are people who wonder if I had a stroke because of the way I talk.. sometimes i just say yes even though it is not true. It is really stuttering. 😞😢...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2023
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I don't want to stutter either, I never chose it or agreed to it – just like with so many other conditions and disorders as well – and I think it just requires the minimum amount of respect to underst...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentValidation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2023
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Check out the book called Stuttering is Cool: A guide to stuttering in a fast talking world (a Google search will find it). It addresses shame among other things....

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Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2023
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Hey, quick reminder that your stutter is not your fault and you should not feel guilty for "still" dealing with it. No one understands your perspective other than yourself and no one has a reason to t...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
postr/StutterAug 31, 2023
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I can't do this anymore

I can't do this anymore I did not have this problem when I was a child. As I grew up, I started to develop very bad stuttering, and today it's as bad as it was 5 years ago. I can speak fluently when I...

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commentr/StutterAug 30, 2023
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I'll just leave it at saying she's not the best, she's the source of other trauma in my childhood without getting into it. It does suck being a female stutterer but I didn't know it was that much on t...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2023
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No, it's from my dad's side he stutters, his sister, his dad and other people on his side. My moms side is fluent. Yeah maybe she feels that way but it's no reason to put your daughter down like that....

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postr/StutterAug 30, 2023
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Teacher accused me of stuttering on purpose?????

Teacher accused me of stuttering on purpose????? Some weeks ago I was talking with my friends about our old teacher. She was a shitty teacher and nobody liked her, so we were basically trashing her. A...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & Conflict
postr/StutterAug 29, 2023
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My Mom is Disappointed that I Stutter.

My Mom is Disappointed that I Stutter. I'm sorry, this may be all over the place and ramble but I'm just so emotional right now and I need to get this rant out. I am aware it is "poor me" and childish...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2023
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That is wildly unprofessional and offensive. The behavior deserves filing a complaint if you are so inclined. >Like he only made me realise how true my negative self beliefs regarding stuttering a...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionSeeking Therapy
postr/StutterAug 29, 2023
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Psychiatrist made fun of my stutter

Psychiatrist made fun of my stutter I just went to a psychiatrist, that has 30 years of experience. Extremely rich as well. I'm not diagnosed with anything, it's just that I can't accept the fact tha...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2023
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Oh yeah, I know those feelings all too well and I'm glad you have supporting friends and made great improvements. Also, I'm pretty sure everything around stuttering is psychological. I've been mocked ...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2023
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It's taking a tollnon my mental health and I'm scared that I am losing work opportunities everytime. I am beating myself up as well on the things I cannot pronouce. I know this isnt the right mindset...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2023
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> Despite the fact that you have a challenge that none of your peers have to deal with, you get up every morning, you go in to school, and you do your best. That's a goddamn success. Well I suppos...

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