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commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2025
2 points

This is a really great philosophy that has effected me throughout my stuttering journey, sales journey, and more! To put it into perspective with stuttering, from when I first looked within and faced...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
3 points

Struggling with Stuttering in High-Pressure Situations – Need Advice

Struggling with Stuttering in High-Pressure Situations – Need Advice Hi everyone, I wanted to share my experience and get some advice. I often struggle with starting a conversation in certain situat...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
9 points

Feeling demoralised from speaking on the phone

Feeling demoralised from speaking on the phone Hi guys, I've just moved back to Melbourne after a year of travelling and am now looking for a job. I've missed out on quite a few job opportunities bec...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
31 points

"Is this how you talk to customers?"

"Is this how you talk to customers?" I work in customer services. Every time when I picked up a call, I could only say "hi". I wanted to say more, like "thanks for calling ..." or "this is ..., how ca...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
5 points

Having trouble getting a job as a fresh college graduate.

Having trouble getting a job as a fresh college graduate. Hi M23, I just joined this group because I’m not sure where else to go. I’ve made it to the final round of interviews multiple times (sometim...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
2 points

A doctor prescribed me propranolol for when I had to give presentations, and while it did help to prevent my heart from pounding out of my chest, it didn’t necessarily help with my stuttering....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
1 points

Agreed. Even I have observed that I stutter less when occasionally I speak something spontaneously. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
1 points

It sucks for sure I have def lost jobs because of my speech. I go in all confident and the interviewer gives that look like “😟”. Hurts, but on the flip side I find disclosing makes things so much eas...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
1 points

Beta blocker maybe like propranalol idk cant drink because youll smell like booze idk maybe a drug of choice whatever that may be but yeah. Tough situation, i use drugs in social situations sometimes ...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
1 points

Look at r/publicspeaking. They generally recommend one specific medication for public speaking anxiety. This was worked for me during interviews...

Community & SupportAnticipation & Avoidance
Advice RequestsAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
9 points

Struggling with Stuttering, Speech Blocks, and Social Anxiety

Struggling with Stuttering, Speech Blocks, and Social Anxiety Hey everyone, I’ve been dealing with stuttering and speech blocks for a while now, and it’s become a major issue for me, especially in soc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
1 points

I don’t say like but I do say umm often. Or if I get stuck on a word, I just breathe in, relax and it comes out....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
postr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
36 points

Unable to secure any job offers due to my stutter

Unable to secure any job offers due to my stutter I (28F) have a situational stutter meaning you wont find me stutter in normal occasions but when I am giving interviews, I really get stressed and I g...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
1 points

Weird way of stuttering…

Weird way of stuttering… I say “ like “ every time i cant say a word, and then try to say it again that way The reason for this is flow, obviously we all know we dont stutter when we sing, because it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
2 points

Yes, finally it took me like 20 years to stop hiding in classes, not raising my hand to answer (even though i know the answer), not interacting with others(only cuz i stutter). For my next week i wil...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
-7 points

Lol. It can be, maybe not 'fixed', but anyone can get better at speaking. The thing is, people dont wanna sacrifice an hour a day, to do that. They all want an easy way out. Its the same with gaining ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
8 points

Might be in the minority but I actually appreciate when someone does this for me (but only singular words) since it allows me to get the information I want to convey across quicker. I’ve got the block...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
postr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
0 points

Something it worked for me for severeal years for dates and interviews.

Something it worked for me for severeal years for dates and interviews. Hi, First a little bit of introduction. I have been a stutterer for as long as I can remember, it has always been with me, sinc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & SubstancesSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelpful Med OutcomesRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
1 points

I feel you. 5 years back, I used to say the exact same things youre saying, and i used to come up with qll kinds of explanation on why i was struggling at work, why i had high anxiety, etc etc. Then ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
14 points

Same. Sometimes I say something not because it's what I want to say but because it's just easier for me to say. And I 100% agree about other things that you mentioned too. But hey, it'll get better. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more