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commentr/StutterSep 9, 2022
2 points

I guess with Stamets he realized that he was in a situation to "reprogram" his brain. So WITH INTENTION he repeated the mantra "i will not stutter" over and over for hours while in this sensitive st...

Meds & SubstancesCoping & Advocacy
Psychedelics & MicrodosingMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
1 points

My parents took me to doctor for my stuttering treatment when I was 10 (I'm 18 now) i have always had severe anxiety. The doc told my parents that they have to keep telling me that ""I'm alright and t...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
26 points

Recently I've had a certain mindset that I tested which was - I will speak whatever there is on my mind and won't let a thought about stutter pop for even a split second. And I have found I speak almo...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2022
1 points

"We've grown confident in our ability through practice and training." \-> You could argue that there are many stutterers who use a technique in order to speak fluently, but when they stop using th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2022
1 points

"Once you achieve fluency" \-> I agree with you that 'aiming for fluency' is a measure to check your progress to achieve 'removing stuttering completely'. But then the question is, how do you mea...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2022
1 points

" I'm developing that skill. " \-> conclusion of my previous message is, our problem is not stuttering or the trigger. The problem lies in 'reacting to the trigger' (our response and perspective o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2022
1 points

you are so right, if we try to speak without stutter, then we actually stutter. So, then the question is: should we not try to speak fluently? To answer this question, we need to understand what happ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2022
2 points

Man, if I was you, just be okay with stuttering. Brush it off like the damn minor thing it is. Easier said than done, but if you try not to stutter, you’ll stutter. Just get up there calmly, you’re pe...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2022
1 points

I started to do positive reinforcement and it’s actually worked a ton. I’m training my subconscious to think I don’t have a stutter and I’ve removed a lot of blocks somehow. I noticed that when I star...

Meds & SubstancesCoping & Advocacy
Helpful Med OutcomesMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2022
1 points

"I think the program that I went through did build resilience against stutter triggers." -> if true what you say, then why bother convincing yourself with positive statement about your trigger? If ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2022
1 points

"Overcoming stuttering is about becoming the most authentic version of yourself." \-> putting the word 'authentic' on a forum like this is very surreal. I might understand the term as 'being your ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2022
1 points

"This allows you to express yourself without doubts, anxiety, and fear. " \-> precisely. It's not about desentitizing. Because then we learn to speak without fear \-> it's about learning to sp...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2022
1 points

"The more you feel like you don't belong, the more you are going to present a fake version of yourself." \-> I think I understand you, but I think 'fear' isn't so much the problem. You can't blame...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2022
1 points

**"if the goal if fluency, the more you stutter"** \-> We can stop compulsion, if we have the goal of fluency while we are not bothered by stuttering. **"the more you try, the more you stutter"*...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2022
1 points

"victim mindset" \-> victim mindset is another word for 'reacting to trigger' in order to justify compulsion. According to research 60% of the stutterers don't stutter when they are comfortable. T...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2022
1 points

"They get stronger and you will have some of the hardest time speaking." \-> you got that right on the money. Imagine a tug of war, you are pulling the rope against your monster. The harder you pu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2022
1 points

**"speech needs working on"** \-> I agree, if you believe that you can't stop compulsion BECAUSE (reason) 1) you need a technique, 2) it needs to improve, or 3) you need more help then you ATTA...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2022
2 points

My advice would be to observe number 3 and 4 (anticipating your name)(building pressure in anticipation) and then learn to not react to it. Just recognize these triggers (which is called acceptance) a...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2022
1 points

Thanks for your accurate analysis! I’d like to add on to 2, because im not a true fan of tolerance. Yes - tolerance can help you function better, but then what are you functioning for? I think the ca...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2022
2 points

Many of you absolutely can gain fluency. I said nothing about tolerating being mocked. I said “consider that you ARE NOT being mocked, even tho it initially seems otherwise.” I guarantee you have f...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking