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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2025
2 points

 I'll just say I haven't had speech therapy in 15 years, but I did recently go to a speech center to see what was new in the stuttering world, and the approach that's gaining a lot of traction is Avoi...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2025
1 points

I speak Hebrew (native) and English (secondary). I stutter more in Hebrew, but I talk much more slowly in English. I do have lots of 'ummm' or 'uhh' mid sentences, so maybe it's my body's way of relea...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2025
1 points

That's awful! I would probably cry. My tip for answering phone calls at work is to pretend I'm an NPC. Brain off, just "Hi, (name of department), this is (my name), how can I help you?" in that clic...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2025
14 points

This might be an unpopular opinion, but I didn’t find this book to be helpful at all. I enjoyed reading about stuttering and someone else’s experience. The idea that I was able to gain more insight o...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2025
1 points

Would it help to write things down and read off them? I notice I’ll use “automatic” prepared phrases for mundane conversations. Like pre made sentence responses. Might sound robotic but it lets me so...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2025
2 points

When I was in school, I wish I was just mute. Life would have been so much easier, mental-health wise. I am sure logistically more difficult. However, once I got out of school and things got a lot ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2025
1 points

I feel the same way as you. My first language is English, and I have a good level of Spanish. The thing is, I definitely stutter a lot more in Spanish because, as you say, I have a lot less control ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2025
2 points

Yes, some language are very easy to work around, others aren't as easy, especially when you don't use them quite often, because if you used the other languages you stutter with, with time, you will fi...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2025
1 points

I am the opposite I speak a lot whatever happens and it has helped me immensely. I stutter while speaking but you know what I love speaking...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2025
1 points

Amazing when I was not talking, absolute dog shit when I had to talk in class or do a presentation....

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postr/StutterFeb 19, 2025
52 points

I might as well be fucking mute

I might as well be fucking mute I can’t believe I can’t even have a conversation without stuttering or using filler words. Oh my god, and on top of that my voice sounds so bad, probably because I don’...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2025
1 points

It’s interesting because before I started learning Arabic as an actual language, I could read the Quran with no stuttering at all. But then when I started learning Arabic, I get so stuck all the time ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2025
1 points

I’m a Bengali who stutters as well, English is also my first language. I would say it’s almost evenly split for me - I stutter in both English, Bangla and the Qur’anic Arabic that I recite during pray...

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commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2025
1 points

That’s me with Bengali and Arabic. Because my vocab is a lot more limited, I can’t easily jump words and mask myself...

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commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2025
3 points

Yes, I speak English and Russian. In Russian I stutter a lot more, both because it's a 'harsher' language, and the consonants make me more prone to blocks. Also, my vocab in Russian is more limited (I...

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commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2025
2 points

I have a mild stutter in English, but it's more moderate in Spanish (my first language). To be fair, its probably because I speak Spanish much more quickly than I do English (Cuban accents tend to hav...

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postr/StutterFeb 19, 2025
18 points

Multilingual people, do you stutter in one language more than another?

Multilingual people, do you stutter in one language more than another? I have been raised in an English speaking country and would say English is my first language. My ethnicity is Bengali so that was...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
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postr/StutterFeb 19, 2025
5 points

idk what to do with my stuttering anymore im lost

idk what to do with my stuttering anymore im lost I'm a 21-year-old male from Algeria, and I've been stuttering since I was four years old. I've had a challenging life, both in school and outside of ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2025
1 points

It is indeed the incosistency nature of stuttering that make it impossible to accept it. I can understand some of the irregularities like when being emotional distress we may stutter more. Just like...

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postr/StutterFeb 19, 2025
52 points

Got refused job because of stuttering

Got refused job because of stuttering Title. I am devops engineer, did a technical interview, and because I really wanted that job, I was super nervous and fucked up completely. Was stuttering in ever...

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