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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
1 points

I’ll paste parts of what I wrote in another chat on this sub. I brief technical stuff to non technical folks regularly, often telling them how vulnerable their shitty security practices leave them ...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
2 points

I stutter sometime, usually in a sliding scale based on how confident I am in the subject matter or crowd’s receptivity (professionals vs teenagers). The biggest thing is to find your tricks, synonym...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
2 points

OP, would you say that you stutter in your thoughts?...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
3 points

Maybe just a mental thing, never have fully understood my stutter and sometimes I feel like it had a mind of its own @-@. Great that you were able to have a good time with full fluency! It’s such a go...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
1 points

I'm also trying to talk with deep voice.. how do you keep your deep voice when talking? i always try to go deep and croaky voice but it usually just goes back to the normal "me" voice.....

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2023
9 points

I have a severe stutter, probably very severe in my college days ( i am 40 now). Everyone takes me serious because I know my shit and I am dependable. Im not going to sugar coat it, there are challe...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2023
3 points

Ok, this is absolutely new thing to me and might be a temporary placebo or just a good part of the stuttering time cycle, but I still want to share this. Try implementing this, I feel like it helps me...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2023
3 points

>Both these things I can relate to very much. I always feel like I KNOW when I will stutter and when I won't. If I read your post correctly, do you also agree with this approach? Great reply. You ...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2023
2 points

>never rely on any thought, feeling, experience or sensation in order to decide whether to hold back speech (such as halting respiratory, laryngeal or articulatory muscles) (argument: because it's ...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2023
1 points

Great reply. This is my attempt to summarize it. Unhelpful beliefs/attitudes: * Assuming what listeners are thinking or feeling during a conversation * Believing that listeners are uncomfortable, th...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2023
3 points

I have a bad habit of assuming what someone is thinking or feeling during a conversation. This usually leads to me believing they are uncomfortable or they think I am stupid or they are trying not to ...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2023
1 points

How did you condition your mind not to anticipate though? I anticipate it in every speaking situation....

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commentr/StutterApr 19, 2023
3 points

>*"What has been the best book you ever read on stuttering that also helped reducing stutter massively? I'm curious what books you would recommend, one that you feel has massively helped you with s...

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postr/StutterApr 19, 2023
3 points

What unhelpful beliefs/attitudes should we change? To which helpful beliefs/attitudes should we change them into (to improve stuttering)?

What unhelpful beliefs/attitudes should we change? To which helpful beliefs/attitudes should we change them into (to improve stuttering)? Previous week many people voted in this [poll](https://www.red...

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commentr/StutterApr 18, 2023
1 points

>*"Understanding the Speaker’s Experience of Stuttering Can Improve Stuttering Therapy. Top Lang Disorders. Vol. 42, No. 1, pp. 57–75. Written by: Seth E. Tichenor, Caryn Herring, and J. Scott Yaru...

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commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
2 points

>*"Get a complete idea in my head before speaking. That could be a phrase, a sentence, or even a paragraph. Once that whole thought is there, then speak it, slowly and with determination."* I agr...

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postr/StutterApr 14, 2023
3 points

What improves your stuttering the most?

What improves your stuttering the most? Our **stutter cycle** starts from the first moment we experience a **trigger** until we block. Each person has a different stutter cycle. My **stutter cycle** ...

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commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
1 points

Software Engineer here. Most of the time I'm just thinking and coding so stuttering doesn't really get in the way.. until I have to communicate with my team or give status updates lol, but that's mere...

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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
3 points

I have the same thing bro, our minds work so fast we already anticipate the block and that is the thing that makes us block, when you're not thinking about like when you're talking alone you don't or ...

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postr/StutterApr 13, 2023
3 points

How to not think about it while talking?

How to not think about it while talking? I keep thinking about it while talking and that's the main cause of my stutter, any tips on how to not think about while talking like distractions or sum?...

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