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postr/StutterMar 10, 2018
3 points

Any interest in doing a voice chat with me (or other stutterers) to practice with speech fluency?

Any interest in doing a voice chat with me (or other stutterers) to practice with speech fluency? I've stuttered since I was a kid and have gone to speech therapy in the past. I've found that I can re...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsTherapy & Professional
Fluency TechniquesFriendships & BelongingTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2018
2 points

Work forced me. When I was young I worked for my dad's auto shop and delivered cars/parts. I also had to get the guys their coffees and muffins every morning, which was the scariest part of life for m...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2018
2 points

You develop social skills by being social. There are no shortcuts. Set goals: for example, meet one new person each day. Or say hello to one new person a day. In time, it will be easier to do so....

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Friendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2018
2 points

"How are you?" is always a good starter to see how chatty people are feeling. Asking questions and taking an interest in people's lives is always a good way to build rapport with people in general. I...

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Friendships & BelongingValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2018
5 points

Smile! "Hey, how are you?" "Good morning." You don't have to go in depth at the start. Most people will respect a stutterer who chooses to be friendly. It's always worked with me. I rarely don't get ...

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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2018
2 points

Social skills take practice. It might be outside your comfort zone but why don’t you start to seem more approachable. Try saying good morning to people as they pass by in the halls, class, or when the...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Friendships & BelongingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2018
9 points

Try talking. Try stuttering and talking. Stuttering and being social can co-exist believe it or not. edit: grammar...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterMar 7, 2018
11 points

How do you develop social skills?

How do you develop social skills? I'm in my second semester of community college and realize that I have basically no social skills. I don't know how to conversations, make small-talk, or interact wit...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Friendships & BelongingAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2018
5 points

Yup. They have no f’ing clue how much it sucks. But it sounds like they like you and want to hear what you have to say. They don’t get it and they never will. Do you have friends who stutter irl?...

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Validation & EmpathyFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2018
4 points

welcome! we're glad to have you! Check out the upcoming events in the side bar. If you're in the US there may be a conference nearby where you can meet other people who stutter in the flesh!!...

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postr/StutterFeb 26, 2018
14 points

Just wanted to share a little victory: I've been consistently running a D&D game!

Just wanted to share a little victory: I've been consistently running a D&D game! **Warning: Longish** (tl;dr at the bottom) My favorite hobby is tabletop RPG's, more commonly referred to as "Dun...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2018
2 points

That sucks. I hope you know your tribe is here and I’m glad you found us. Have you found support irl?...

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commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2018
1 points

Welcome! There is also the discord chat stutter channel you can join. Introductions are very painful and i think most of us stutters fear it. I also stutter on my name during intros....

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Friendships & BelongingAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2018
1 points

Is there someone in your life you can talk to about how you’re feeling? If not, what country/state are you in? There are frequently groups of people who stutter who meet to discuss struggles and suppo...

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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2018
2 points

Same as well. I think we should really try to use the discord as much as possible to improve our confidence in our speech in a safer environment....

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commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2018
1 points

I've met several stutterers in real life. Early in the conversation, when I realize they stutter, I often hope they don't think I'm making fun of them when I'm stuttering myself. There's a competitiv...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterFeb 9, 2018
19 points

Met someone with a stutter for the first time in my life today!

Met someone with a stutter for the first time in my life today! A professional fraternity I’m in decided to join a coed indoor soccer league and field a team. I met one of my teammates and managed to ...

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Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & PrideFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterFeb 6, 2018
2 points

Any tips on how to improve social skills with a stutter?

Any tips on how to improve social skills with a stutter? [deleted]...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Friendships & BelongingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2018
3 points

Yes, exactly! It a nice knowing people with similar experiences. I don’t know any stutterers in my daily life. ...

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2018
1 points

Yeah I just now remember my friend introduced me to someone else who stuttered too. Never talked to him or even bothered to get his info after that. I guess it's because we see ourselves in them and ...

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