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postr/StutterOct 20, 2023
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Stuttering is so mentally draining 😩

Stuttering is so mentally draining 😩 It’s like we are all nutcases every person who stutters. We all get laughed at and become more closed off and this is so depressing for real I wouldn’t wish this ...

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commentr/StutterOct 20, 2023
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I think she was just having a bit of a laugh, unless the teacher is a dick aside from this incident. I remember my teacher laughing at me in school. I had gone to her outside of our class to ask her ...

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commentr/StutterOct 20, 2023
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Stutter has fucked up my confidence so much it affects my performance in activities where I don't even speak lol. Kms...

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postr/StutterOct 20, 2023
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Have you guys ever thought about how your life would be without stutter ?

Have you guys ever thought about how your life would be without stutter ? I haven’t made any friends or even barely spoken during my high school years, every time when I was required to speak I felt l...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2023
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"She didn't mean to make fun of me, it was just funny in the context." If I didnt know that it was a "stuttering event" I would laugh as well. My teacher didnt know that I stutter and when I eventua...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2023
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This is awesome. Unfortunately, I have to admit that I used to experience secondhand embarrassment from hearing others stutter as it reminded me of what I must have sounded like to others. I'm glad I ...

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postr/StutterOct 19, 2023
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I hate high school and being a teenager

I hate high school and being a teenager Im 16M, and honestly, im so tired of this shit... Everyday in school is suffering: first, the anxiety that i will get picked out to read out loud, and then the ...

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postr/StutterOct 19, 2023
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Teacher "laughed" at my stutter

Teacher "laughed" at my stutter During my Latin oral question, I stuttered on a word. I usually put together sounds of different words, so while reading a specific word it came out as a coarse word, n...

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postr/StutterOct 19, 2023
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Ramblings of a stutterer

Ramblings of a stutterer I have a stutter, ever since I was a child I’ve had it. I do not stutter a lot, but it is there nonetheless. it is not a stutter that is debilitating. It does not, ruin my lif...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2023
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I’m sorry you’re struggling! It was really tough for me when I was your age. My parents also dismissed me and had this idea it would just go away and it never did. Please please PLEASE remember, peop...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2023
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My heart goes out to you! Feel free to message me anytime to vent. If you live in a big city the chances of a meet up or group of stutters to engage with is highly likely and very beneficial! You ca...

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commentr/StutterOct 17, 2023
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It’s great that you’re realizing what caused this dent in your self esteem. Yeah, I am starting to think, things like stuttering, are our bodies trying to tell us something isn’t right. Rather in our ...

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commentr/StutterOct 17, 2023
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Thank you! This is encouraging and as I’m reading it I’m like you know what, me too! Terrible self talk lately. My recent ex was like flirting around for a long time and that took a huge dent from my ...

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commentr/StutterOct 17, 2023
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Yes, I’ve had the same experience with stuttering. Over the years there have been times it has been severe and others where it hardly happened. Those times I was not stuttering much, I did notice that...

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commentr/StutterOct 17, 2023
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Oh definitely, always ruins my comedic timing. Trying to tell a funny story and watching the other person's losing their smile while I struggle to say the punchline, shit is horrible....

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postr/StutterOct 15, 2023
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I Hold Back Until My Censor Approved What I Have To Say

I Hold Back Until My Censor Approved What I Have To Say *I remember clearly when I was a little boy my mother did not like that I cursed. She hated it. So everytime I curse while talking she yelled at...

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commentr/StutterOct 15, 2023
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Nope, stuttering is of the things I'd never mention. The fact is when everyone finds out this problem they automaticly stop treating stutterer as an equel. They treat you not with understanding, but w...

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postr/StutterOct 14, 2023
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Helpless

Helpless I honestly feel so helpless. My stuttering has gotten so much worse, whether it be individual or in social situations. I was in speech therapy before but I don’t think had much of an impact. ...

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postr/StutterOct 13, 2023
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Saying bye

Saying bye Hey, I need some advice/opinion about saying goodbye to people. I have some trouble with greeting, thank you, bye, good night and so on. But mostly with saying good bye. These are this si...

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postr/StutterOct 12, 2023
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Can't take it anymore, I hope life had a quit button

Can't take it anymore, I hope life had a quit button I just can't, I have had a severe stutter, from 12-13. It's more psychological, and it's like a block. I repeat my comfort sentences like "I mean" ...

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