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postr/StutterDec 15, 2018
25 points

I hate speaking with strangers who try to have a casual conversations, like a cab driver asking me random questions

I hate speaking with strangers who try to have a casual conversations, like a cab driver asking me random questions I'm extrovert, always have been but my stutter draws me strongly back from it. As a ...

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postr/StutterDec 12, 2018
8 points

How to improve fluency and reach a point where full conversations are possible?

How to improve fluency and reach a point where full conversations are possible? Hi! This is a really specific question. I'm 25 and my stutter is really bad now. Conversations are horribly difficult fo...

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commentr/StutterDec 7, 2018
1 points

Yea brings negativity to most of us. I got laughed at all through school, mocked and mimicked, etc...I have more blocks than stammering so I just am there not making any sound at all, my face turning ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterDec 7, 2018
2 points

It's complicated, but yea I don't hate it, sometimes the hate arises, but to hate it is to have more suffering than I already have, so yea I try not to hate it. I look at it as... I stammer so it's in...

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commentr/StutterNov 24, 2018
1 points

It doesn’t go away. I stuttered since I was 6 or 7. Looking back I don’t remember high school being that bad. I mean, outside of the dreaded presentations here and there. University and nursing schoo...

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commentr/StutterNov 24, 2018
5 points

Hey there! As I read your post I could see high school me. I also started stuttering around 4th grade (I was 8), just like that out of the blue. Completely neurological, all those speech therapy seeme...

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commentr/StutterNov 24, 2018
5 points

28. It may never go away but managing it gets better over the years. One thing that has worked for me is self improvement through: 1. Learning to not giving a fuck. 2. Improving my physical self ima...

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commentr/StutterNov 23, 2018
1 points

I didn’t even think about that when I posted this, but I guess it could be a bad habit or coping mechanism. Diving deeper I feel like a coping mechanism is something that helps for a short period of t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionPhysical TensionQuality of Life
postr/StutterNov 12, 2018
12 points

Communication aid that never gets mentioned

Communication aid that never gets mentioned So, I keep going back and forth on bringing this up. I’ve never seen it even mentioned here in this sub and figured I’d throw it out there. DISCLAIMER — I...

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commentr/StutterOct 31, 2018
1 points

I wish I had gone to a manager but I was humiliated by that girl laughing. This was years ago so I am not even sure if that girl still works there or not and I don’t go to that location anymore anyway...

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commentr/StutterOct 31, 2018
2 points

Thank you. I remember once when I was just starting to drive on my own (around 18, I was a late bloomer you could say) I went to order a coffee and literally just drove away because by the time I pull...

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postr/StutterOct 30, 2018
7 points

I am a severe stammerer and I don't know what to do? Question like will I ever get a job bothers me a lot. Please help..

I am a severe stammerer and I don't know what to do? Question like will I ever get a job bothers me a lot. Please help.. I am a severe stammerer and I don't know what to do? Question like will I ever ...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2018
2 points

I was a similar situation. When speaking at my home country and with family I can easily substitute words that I get stuck with. If I cant substitute with a word from my mother tongue I’ll use Englis...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2018
1 points

I wanted to visit America as well and the thing I'm mainly worried about is my speech, I know for a fact that if I do go that it will get so much worse. Sorry for not answering your question but I'm c...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2018
1 points

It helps if I read off and point the menu instead of talking directly to the person. I know, sometimes they only have all the things written on the board behind them, but I try my best. Certainly ther...

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postr/StutterOct 25, 2018
6 points

What normal things does your stutter prevent you or have you dread doing?

What normal things does your stutter prevent you or have you dread doing? I love Subway, but for obvious reasons I dread the process of ordering it. I also HATE it when I am told to order pizza. I stu...

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commentr/StutterOct 11, 2018
2 points

It sucks! I guess that's similar for both sexes. It's probably a little easier for a woman because generally people are quite empathic. It never got in the way of dating for me but it has limited my c...

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commentr/StutterOct 1, 2018
1 points

Good thread here.. Yeah me to. I still hate talking on the phone. When I young I stuttered fairly severely, less though after therapy, puberty, and a little less with more age... Practice practice...

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commentr/StutterOct 1, 2018
1 points

Oh you're completely right, I know I need to make an effort to start doing it because I'm definitely making life harder for myself. I can book GP appointments online (just had to fill in an annoying...

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commentr/StutterOct 1, 2018
2 points

I relate with you 100%, and I often avoid phone calls when it’s more convenient to perform the task online instead. However, making doctor/dentist/vet appointments often can’t be done online. For me ...

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