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postr/StutterDec 29, 2021
10 points

Stuttering and dating

Stuttering and dating Just got bummed about a date that I had tonight. Got rejected and am wondering if my stuttering had anything to do about it. Weird thing is I stuttered a bit and used word substi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2021
2 points

I’m glad he’s cool with it! That must have been such a relief. I’ve always been pretty upfront with it in relationships, even though my stutter doesn’t hold me back or impair me every single day. I’...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2021
6 points

I'm a 16 year old male teenager right now, and you appear to be a fair bit more mature than I am. Regardless this is my take on your situation. Do you stutter with people other than your boyfriend, an...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyDating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterDec 26, 2021
31 points

Don’t let the stutter stop you, I’m proud on myself

Don’t let the stutter stop you, I’m proud on myself So i’m 23 years old and I wanted to share with you about myself I have stutter since ever, some bad times and some better times along the way but th...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career+1 more
postr/StutterDec 24, 2021
38 points

Finally having a real relationship and now I’m scared

Finally having a real relationship and now I’m scared Hey I’m 22 and a mild stutterer but there are some days when I extremely stutter. So, i never had a real relationship and now I have a chance and ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceSeeking Therapy
postr/StutterDec 12, 2021
90 points

Had my first proper "date" in sooo many years. It went well!!!

Had my first proper "date" in sooo many years. It went well!!! I've been stuttering since I was 8-9 years old. For me, meeting someone from Tinder and actually having a date would create me panic att...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2021
1 points

Oh and I do date, I have a beautiful Romanian girl that I'm totally smitten over and I am an alpha romantic stuff again!...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
postr/StutterDec 6, 2021
9 points

New here..

New here.. I'm 34 years old and have been stuttering since third grade elementary school. Before that I had no issue talking except a lisp when I was like 7 years old. My oldest sister stuttered also ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
1 points

I would say it’s more rare that two people who stutter date each other, rather than a stutterer dating in general. It’s more difficult maybe in some circumstances but not everyone’s a shallow turd lol...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Dating & RomanceValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
8 points

I'm in a relationship right now. Before becoming exclusive with this girl, I was dating 4 or 5 women at a time throughout the summer, all beautiful women. Personally, stuttering has been of no issue ...

Social & RelationshipsMeds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Hope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2021
1 points

Terrible idea. The male-female ratio of people who stutter is 4 to 1. Many years ago someone created a Stuttering Dating Site. Members consisted of almost all men and was an utter failure. Addit...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2021
-2 points

If I marry to a girl that stutters, what are the pros and cons?...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2021
1 points

I stutter when I am nervous, shy, embarrassed, attracted to someone, or just because it randomly happens, I have had partners who have said it's endearing or cute, honestly, I didn't care and I told t...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightShame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 25, 2021
2 points

I suggest living it out first and doing things that you enjoy. Having a stutter can take away many opportunities which I understand. School, social, dating, work, etc. It is hard. Keep practicing, don...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Quality of LifeDating & RomanceEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2021
2 points

>I mean, just asking someone out is literally a physical struggle if you stutter. I know that all too well. I grew up before texting and tinder. The chances of a major block when approaching some...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2021
1 points

I think it'd make more sense to mention the stutter shortly after DMing starts. Dating apps are so shallow that people might not be willing to try if it says u have a stutter...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2021
5 points

19M with somewhat severe stutter. Was homeschooled and am socially awkward most of the time. Have been going on 2-3 dates per month on average since being 18 (most of which were from online dating app...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Advice RequestsAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2021
1 points

I believe the easy option is to try online dating where you state your speech impediment in your biography. With severe stuttering, in my own life and from the words of my speech pathologist, confide...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2021
3 points

1. Desensitize yourself to hearing yourself stutter. Find friends you can be open to and talk about your struggles with. Someone you can ask to be patient when you do stutter and allow you to find you...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2021
25 points

Nike has a great marketing slogan....Just Do it I had my first and only date (blind date) at the age of 25. I did not go to prom, no school parties, no nothing. My best friend told me that she did...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideDating & Romance