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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
1 points

Why would you ever tell anyone you have a stutter. You should integrate a mindset to eliminate it, not to spread awareness that you have it. Give your self some credit man....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
2 points

I hear that you're really frustrated maybe even angry about your stutter. That's a really tough place to be in. I hear that you want to just be able to speak fluently all the time and that if you coul...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2022
4 points

Definitely isn't bullshit. Learning to accept it and to stop caring what others say about it did wonders for me. It wasn't quick, took a couple years of work but most people I meet now I have no idea ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2022
5 points

Think about how you forget things in general....for example, what did you eat for dinner two weeks ago from today? Obviously if you try really hard you might remember, but 99% of the time you will h...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2022
7 points

>Or just keep stuttering and hating on life. I remember reading a quote on a forum “Stuttering is not the problem. You are the problem. Stuttering is the result”. Thank you! You raise some great p...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 12, 2022
48 points

An unconventional approach to stop stuttering, that has helped me tremendously.

An unconventional approach to stop stuttering, that has helped me tremendously. Hi All, I guess I could refer to myself as someone who stutters, but I have managed to minimise my stutter to a point w...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2022
1 points

>what should I bring up? You could advice, in the podcast, that PWS can focus more on trusting automatic speech rather than linking self-esteem to their speech My advice is to tackle the stigma '...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
16 points

im really at the point of "i dont care anymore". it bothers me for a good 30 seconds then i go back to whatever im doing. like for me, all i do is stare into the abyss and regret every life decision i...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2022
3 points

Exactly, because you can't have a disability based on your location. A man with a limp which is a trued disability limps in every room of his house. He can't go into a room alone and walk perfectly, ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2022
1 points

I ask myself this same question everyday because I felt it held me back for years. This year, I told myself I was going to change that, go out more, speak my mind even if people laugh at me. I make my...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2022
1 points

Okay interesting 🤔 I was thinking eventually if you work on the speech down the line you have to change the label. If you read psycho cybernetics it's interesting book about self image. And probably ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2022
1 points

What do you think about label? I am person who stutters I know it could be helpful in long run But eventually in long run it send the message that I am still a Stuttering person. Even though I had wo...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2022
4 points

thats really profound. i think i have a lot to learn about myself, the stutter, and ways to improve....

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
2 points

Respect, dont let it be a crutch. Once i realized that, things got better. Be the best you can be day in and day out. I did 8 years in the military and if i can do it any of you can achieve things. W...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
5 points

You have to embrace it.. The sooner you do the better. It would drive me insane if I thought about my stuttering that hard lol. 😂 It may get better as you age. I got my stuttering upgrade at age ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
5 points

That is actually the first step to overcoming your stutter. Mine went 99.9% when I simply stopped thinking about it. It’s an automatism you have to overcome and it all starts with the realization that...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2022
1 points

How I practiced from 'stuttering when alone' to 'speaking fluently when I'm alone': * gaining confidence in the ability to speak without symptoms (reinforcing natural automatic speech) * removing rea...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2022
5 points

Most important thing is to not hold back on anything. Be yourself no matter how much you stutter or might stutter. Because who the hell really care right?...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2022
0 points

I agree with the comments, it can happen. I always stuttered when alone but with practice I now don't stutter when alone. However, if I tell myself that: 'It makes sense to stutter when alone', then I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2022
0 points

**"i also don’t stutter when singing. (because it’s a song and there’s a rhythm?)"** I think stutterers stutter (more) when talking to people, because they evaluate (say: perceive / associate) a stut...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionCycles & Randomness+2 more