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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2025
5 points

Thank you for your response :) I’ve learned many "tricks" over the years to help combat my stuttering. And yeah they occasionally work, but not always. I noticed I stutter excessively when I’m under ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightFeared Words & Names
postr/StutterMar 4, 2025
8 points

People learning a new language, is it hard to progress because of your stutter?

People learning a new language, is it hard to progress because of your stutter? I am currently learning Arabic (modern standard Arabic), and I am fluent in English and Bengali. I’ve been studying for ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2025
2 points

Pharmacist here with a severe stutter. You want to avoid benzos such as Xanax. While they may be helpful they can lead to dependency and addiction. Your doctor probably won't give it to you anyways. Y...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Side Effects & RisksAvoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating Stuttering+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2025
1 points

I find if I have pre scripted answers or things I’m going to say it helps, that works best for me. Sometimes I’ll talk in a rhythm like what I’m saying is a song. But if I have to come with words/sen...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Preparation & RehearsalAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2025
1 points

Im trying to be a teacher and I got a different accent from the local people which makes my situation even worse. I have presented numerous times to my uni mates, college and fellow students. I believ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2025
1 points

Oh like when I stop trying to hide it. It gets worse. That’s what I meant by I do things I otherwise wouldn’t. Like I try again. And then, it gets worse. So I regress back. As for coping mechanisms, I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2025
1 points

Ironically I became a writer who mainly writes scripts. While a good part of my work is digital so doesn't really involve speaking to people, as a freelancer I need to speak with clients if I want to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionRoles & PerformanceEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMar 3, 2025
1 points

Should I get out of my comfort zone?

Should I get out of my comfort zone? I don't like the way I speak. I have been running away from anything that can put me in a speaking situation for years. I don't talk to people if it is not super n...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2025
3 points

Forced myself to order food in places face to face and call places over the phone. It helps in the long run...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2025
2 points

Mine was pretty severe. So therapy never helped me get over it. As I got older, I just learned ways to get past the blocks. When I say the things that help me, everyone always says it's bad. But I'm 4...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
postr/StutterMar 2, 2025
1 points

I stutter on specific letters, but I can give presentations and perform plays/musicals with no issues. Anyone else?

I stutter on specific letters, but I can give presentations and perform plays/musicals with no issues. Anyone else? I’ve had this sporadic stutter for as long as I can remember. It’s only when I’m anx...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Feared Words & NamesSituational VariabilityAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2025
1 points

I gave many fucks and am still sensitive. I passed as fluent as a backroom transactional lawyer after doing very well in law school by keeping my mouth shut as much as possible. Avoided interaction ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2025
2 points

blocking is impossible to cure due to a certain genetic build we have as stutterers, but im sure you stutter less than when you werent so outgoing and confident, i want to be like you sir, stuttering ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2025
2 points

I’m a very outgoing person who has no issue striking up conversation with strangers on the street! I do,however, block on certain words so I’ve been avoiding those words for 37 years....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2025
24 points

I used to work at Starbucks, when i was hired i was hoping that because of my stutter they would put me mostly making drinks however i was shifted to all positions. In the beginning it was tough, I ha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2025
3 points

I just do things that I otherwise wouldn’t because of my stutter. And then my stutter flairs up. I get blamed for the life I live because I’m not living up to my full potential. But I’m not living up ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2025
2 points

Loved the approach that effective communication is when we say what we want to say and not dependent on the fluency. I am still in that phase where I get stuck to a lot of words, mostly words which ar...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMar 2, 2025
28 points

how to beat your stutter (16M)

how to beat your stutter (16M) im a big believer that stuttering is a curable thing, so I'm going to keep it short. as a disclaimer, beating this thing will take a lot of willpower and time; if you a...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2025
6 points

Absolutely, f*** speech therapy. I’ve never had a good experience in speech therapy, I’ve only ever felt humiliated and disappointed. Maybe there are good speech therapists out there, I don’t know, bu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2025
3 points

I was watching fluency techniques by different speech therapist, they all are saying in the end "you will still stutter" like a disclaimer. There are stutterers who will get panic attacks when someone...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity