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postr/StutterMay 30, 2022
14 points

stuttering and dating

stuttering and dating The last couple of dates I've been the person I was going out with said they thought my stutter was "cute", I don't have the fact that I stutter in my dating profile so they didn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2022
1 points

I stutter too, and it's tough. I think I am a little slow which causes my stutter. Something it quite right with my genetics. Reading these posts about stuttering is depressing but very true and I ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Genetic & Family FactorsAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2022
1 points

There’s someone out there for everyone, I’ve stutter since I was in 1st grade and I’m 38 years old. I never really thought I would find anyone myself and the thought really didn’t bother I was fine bu...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2022
2 points

I'm (27F) happily married while having a stutter. None of the people that I've dated have cared. Some thought my stutter was adorable which I strongly disliked. One of my exes was used to stuttering, ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2022
1 points

I have a stutter that gets bad some times and I am married with kids. Just trust that people are attracted to confidence and work through it. People will look past your stuttering....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2022
1 points

The biggest enemy and bully is yourself. I was on the contrary, girls came up to me all the time and asked me out, but I kept turning them down because i thought that because of my stutter I will not ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2022
1 points

18M and I stutter as well I'm given pity by everyone but at this point I can't be bothered to care anymore and just carry on with my college life, relationships never bothered me though....

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2022
3 points

At 22, I too was convinced I would never find love and die alone. I had such anger at the world and thought bitter loneliness to be my lot in life. At 44, I am 15 years into a happy marriage to a be...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2022
1 points

Heya! So it sounds like from this post a lot of the emotions you’re experiencing are from life itself and not necessarily directly related to your stutter. I recently graduated university, started a n...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationFriendships & BelongingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2022
1 points

a boy with a stutter that is at least 6 foot, likes skiing, and will love me unconditionally lol...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2022
5 points

I’m in the same boat (24 m). I consider myself decent looking, I have a great job and for the most part a pretty “normal” guy. My stutter is manageable but I feel like the trauma I’ve experienced duri...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2022
1 points

I know a lot of other people here are saying similar things but it’s true! You’ll find someone, I find that the stutter is great for filtering low quality people out of your life so you don’t waste yo...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Hope & MotivationDating & RomanceValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2022
11 points

I’m in my late 50, female and began stuttering at around 5yo. I’ve heard a lot of men mention they’ve never met a female who stutters. That’s because the ratio is about 5:1. 5 out of 100 people who st...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying+1 more
postr/StutterMay 22, 2022
13 points

Need some advice/trying to optimistic

Need some advice/trying to optimistic So tomorrow I have concert in Dublin with a friend of mine. I haven’t been to a concert in years cause of the pandemic and gotta say I’m shitting myself. I’ve nev...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsMeds & Substances
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2022
1 points

26 M stutterer here, looking 8 out of 10 I would say. Was feeling those things but in the end we have to remember that this is who we are and trying to hide it or pretend is not there would make it on...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2022
6 points

22m and same except I've never been into a relationship cause a relationship needs a lot of communication so that's where I sign out...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2022
29 points

My stutter emerged as a result from a traumatic dog attack at the age of 5. I couldn't speak for a year and then I was put in speech therapy (12 years) all through school and 8 more years out of hig...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Trauma & PsychologicalHope & MotivationSuicidal Ideation & High Distress+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2022
2 points

Hey, I know it's hard but you're still young. Keep your head high. I have stuttered since I was little too, and I (29) just got married to my wife, who just happens to love me AND my stutter. I didn't...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride+1 more
postr/StutterMay 22, 2022
49 points

I feel like I will end up being alone forever

I feel like I will end up being alone forever So I (22 f) have stuttered since I was little. I would consider myself fairly attractive, I definitely am not a stunner but I look nice if I put effort in...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessDating & RomanceFriendships & Belonging+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2022
1 points

I’ve got girls through my stutter by joking about it and showing confidence in the fact I have one. That’s how I’ve used it as an advantage....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride