commentr/StutterMay 23, 2022

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The biggest enemy and bully is yourself. I was on the contrary, girls came up to me all the time and asked me out, but I kept turning them down because i thought that because of my stutter I will not be a good enough person for them. Everyone around me kept telling me that my stutter doesn’t bother them and some called it even cute. It is hard, but now I more or less accepted myself, there is no reason to hate yourself for something that is not your fault, you must remove that big wall that was built around you all these years. Learn to love yourself first and then you will learn to love others. I bet there are many guys interested in you, sooner or later you will find the one. Either way you are only 22 years old, just one year younger than me. Adult life has only began and there will be hundreds of new opportunities. Now your main focus should be on education and finding a job, guys and other things should come eventually. Good luck!

Themes

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships

Subthemes

Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationDating & Romance