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commentr/StutterDec 25, 2022
2 points

Half of folks here have improved their stuttering to certain degree and looking to share their learnings. Third of folks here are looking for help because they're lost, and the remaining just want to ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2022
2 points

I used to be like you. It doesn’t do you any good to pretend that you don’t stutter by avoiding talking about it. Everyone already knows and there’s absolutely no shame in talking about it. When you a...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2022
5 points

The thing is - they probably don't even know that I stutter, and that it's a disorder which I cannot control. They probably think that I'm just a dumbass weirdo, who just never learned to talk. And ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2022
1 points

I’m an appliance technician. I do service calls and fix and re sell washers/dryers on the side. In high school I was a big science and math nerd and didn’t think I would be in the trades. But it’s goo...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2022
3 points

I think stuttering is such a hidden disorder that for many it's basically non existant. ​ What I mean is compared to other people who suffer diffrent mental health troubles we stutterers,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterDec 17, 2022
7 points

How did you stop thinking of stuttering every second of your life?

How did you stop thinking of stuttering every second of your life? [deleted]...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2022
3 points

I think I would be a very different person if I could speak normally. I would love to be able to socialize, to discuss things and give my opinions, to talk to girls, to be funny. I'm pretty much force...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Quality of LifeAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2022
1 points

Yes, people always assume I’m autistic or awkward but it’s really cause I stutter...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2022
5 points

The bigger question for me is how many opportunities have I fumbled, self sabotaged or avoided to create a daily life with minimal stuttering. My stuttering impacts me "a little" "daily" but my daily...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2022
1 points

Yes and no. I enjoy socializing, I enjoy conversation, I enjoy listening to others. I always have. But my stutter does make me a bit of a loner, Im hard to understand and not everyone wants to put u...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2022
2 points

Agree, the more I’ve accepted myself for who I am, been more open with my stutter and stopped trying to hide it, the better it’s gotten....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
1 points

I think you are redefining disfluency and adding this element of avoidance behavior. Last time i checked, most professionals characterize avoidance as a secondary behavior, NOT as one of the three ty...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
1 points

Not exactly, but sometimes I wonder if I had the power to restart my life without stuttering, but keeping my personality, "myself", that I developed through the years. Still, I don't think it's suicid...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
6 points

Communication is more than spoken words. Social interaction is more than spoken words. “Its over before it began” I disagree with that big time...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
2 points

In my experience and many others, you will not be mocked or made fun of for stuttering while doing mundane tasks like ordering food or making a phone call. I’ve been at the airport all day and stutter...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
3 points

Okay, then the answer should be at least sort of obvious. Don’t resist your stutter. Easier said than done. But become comfortable with stuttering, so you don’t got to resist. Resist is the same thing...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
6 points

This is a loaded question that deserves more of a conversation than a post. It sounds like you may benefit from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or some similar therapy.. We have the stutterer's mindse...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shiftFluency Techniques+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
3 points

I’m pretty sure you will find that almost everyone here who has developed a comfortable fluency has done so by using disclosing of some kind (voluntary stuttering, direct disclosing etc). My person...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
19 points

Allowing myself to stutter on the phone or whenever talking to colleagues has really made me realise most people don’t mind it. It is liberating....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterDec 14, 2022
22 points

So, It's been 14 years in sales!

So, It's been 14 years in sales! Not sure why exactly am I posting this experience but it'll help me think out loud and might help others that feel related to this. I still don't know how I managed ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more