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commentr/StutterJul 12, 2022
8 points

At first it was kinda embarrassing and made me overthink it the rest of the day .. but with time it became easier until i felt comfortable enough and told her about my problem .. so yeah the first few...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2022
3 points

im considering getting "STUTTER" as a tattoo on my forearm/wrist just so that i can point to it when i cant speak. id rather someone see the tattoo and expect me to have a stutter instead of me tryin...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2022
2 points

For some reason I've always been able to back out of a block and explain that I have a stutter, just as an explanation for why I'm blocking (most people probably think I just can't think of the word)....

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2022
6 points

2 things, a pin and a small notebook. I wear a pin that says “I stutter, please be patient”. People read it before I get the chance to talk 9/10 so now I get less confused faces and questions. On ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAvoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2022
8 points

Good speech therapy will guide you through the desensitization you need to become able to disclose your stuttering. It takes time and support, but it can be done…...

Therapy & ProfessionalSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Seeking TherapyDisclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2022
2 points

I just had a really tough round of interviews, and ended up getting it. I normally take Xanax and propranolol before (doc prescribed for stutter/anxiety. One thing I also do is tell the interviewer “I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2022
7 points

My grandad when he was a teenager literally carried around a notepad just for that lol. He would usually just write "My name is ____" and/or write "I have a stutter" just in case he needed to explain ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2022
14 points

I typically don’t. They get the point. Sometimes I try to use synonyms, like “speech impediment” or “speech issue” or “my brain sucks ass sometimes”. I’ve been pulled over and asked my name. I could...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling OthersStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJul 7, 2022
23 points

What you do?

What you do? What do you do when your stutter is so bad you can't even explain to the other person that you have a stutter because you cannot say it? How to deal with that?...

Social & RelationshipsSpeech & Stuttering
Disclosure & Telling OthersBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterJul 7, 2022
4 points

Is anyone else forced to turn the other cheek when someone makes fun of them in a group setting because they don't want to stutter on a comeback?

Is anyone else forced to turn the other cheek when someone makes fun of them in a group setting because they don't want to stutter on a comeback? Happened a few weeks ago at a workplace that I was in....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJul 5, 2022
4 points

Need help

Need help Hello. Firstly, i apologize for language errors if I make any. English is not my main language I am a 25 year old male, good looking and with a very athletic body ( I train 6x a week). In ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
postr/StutterJul 5, 2022
7 points

Placement

Placement So I am a 26F with a moderate stutter, I frequently repeat and prolong sounds and experience blocks quite regularly (even more so when under pressure or in a bad frame of mind). I have a tea...

School & WorkTherapy & ProfessionalSocial & Relationships
School & Academic LifeAssistive DevicesDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2022
2 points

thank you, this is a big help! I didnt realise that until now but i use disclosures a lot. i find that it helps to break the ice a little. I'll either do that or see how long i can go without stutter...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2022
1 points

Please try this instead. Write down “I stutter and have difficulty getting my words out.” Show them that, make normal eye contact with pharmacist/cashier and start. Talking. Very. Slo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2022
2 points

I’ve found the program very helpful! You have to put in the work though, and respond almost immediately to relapses. It works but it’s very mentally taxing and the first while will be like playing “wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2022
2 points

Defo ask the employee first :) I have a stutter so don’t be cautious of asking more about we would rather talk about it because it eases our anxiety when others know especially in the workplace :) I w...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2022
3 points

you could ask them if they want people to know that they have a stutter. i find that everyone with a stutter struggles with their name so on their first day, it would be an appreciated thing to say "t...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2022
8 points

No I dont think, that that would be a dick move. Telling them is probably better because they will be more aware if the situation and not be as surprised. In my experience it gets easier when people j...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2022
2 points

What always helps me is when I introduce myself and have a block or stutter while saying my name, I’ll finish the sentence with “My bad, I have a stutter. Makes things allot more interesting!” It alwa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2022
2 points

That’s an excellent tip, disclosing my stutter definitively does feel relieving. Also another tip I forgot to mention is to speak in a low, gentle tone to help relieve tension between your tongue and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesDisclosure & Telling Others