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commentr/StutterMar 12, 2023
5 points

I remember feeling like this when I was first beginning to date up until I met my fiancé. I wasn't in a real relationship until college, and in that relationship, I stayed because I was afraid no one ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterMar 12, 2023
22 points

Clinging on to relationships

Clinging on to relationships As a PWS... do you find yourself holding on to failing relationships because you fear it will take you forever to find another one ?...

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Helplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2023
7 points

The hardest thing for a stutterer is to not think of your speech impediment in that kind of situations. But I don't struggle that much myself in interviews anymore because I think more on my appearanc...

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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2023
1 points

I think one problem is that if you are a young person who stutters, especially if it’s pretty severe, you may never have met or seen anybody who sounds like you who has a job and a romantic partner an...

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commentr/StutterMar 9, 2023
10 points

I would definitely be a more outgoing and sociable person. I will consider a lot of other careers. I will have more friends. I won't have constant anxiety when I need to talk. The depression and sad t...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2023
5 points

Absolutely, brother! No matter what we have to fix this issue, even if people say that nobody notices or cares, I know from experience that if u stutter people always look down on you, every single...

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Stigma & BullyingHelplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2023
10 points

You just have to find that right person, my ex used to call my stutter annoying then I broke up with her and my current GF doesn’t care about my stutter at all. You just have to put yourself out there...

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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2023
1 points

Hey, next time hit on one of those hostesses, ask if she can help you sometime because u noticed how well they spoke..make a little joke out of it. I'm joking but hey, u never know til u go for it. I ...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2023
1 points

My boyfriend has a stutter . At first I thought he done it because he was nervous/shy then I realised it was a part of his autism . I did feel bad at first but now I just think it’s sexy , especially ...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2023
1 points

Smh bro if that's your mentality, you'll always be single. Everyone you've met has dated somebody before they even met you....

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2023
1 points

> Your advantage will be the guys they are into will break their hearts and they will be open to someone not her type. So essentially leftovers?...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2023
1 points

There are emphatic people of both genders who look beneath the surface and consider the whole person. Don't isolate yourself in fear of not being worthy of being loved and valued. As a stutterer who ...

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Hope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2023
2 points

Yup, I barely know anyone who stutters as well and most of them are indeed men. I am a woman who stutters. Wouldn't use an app like that though, because I can navigate in daily life just like every o...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2023
1 points

Yeah well good luck finding a good looking girl who doesnt stutter or have other handicaps & has alot of male options to marry you ya douchebag. Believe me not many are out there. If I did marry a...

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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2023
1 points

I appreciate your words of wisdom bro and I’m glad you met people in your life who accepted you and loved you for you being yourself. But deep down I just don’t think those things are meant to happen ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2023
2 points

This post really hit home for me. I had a lot of those same fears and insecurities in my teens and into my 20s. Honestly, I think everyone who stutters has felt this way. I always saw girls I wanted t...

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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2023
1 points

I understand young being a factor but at the same time I know that I was the only reason I kept constantly getting rejected and I’m totally fine with that. I thought back on it and I realized that may...

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commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2023
1 points

We met at a church youth event and he was smitten immediately. I was in my last year of university and he has a 28yr old bachelor Navy pilot. Of course I couldn’t believe he’d be interested in me beca...

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Acceptance & PrideTrauma & PsychologicalDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2023
7 points

That would be great for many us of, including me. As a stutterer having never even been in a relationship throughout my 21 years of life, find it difficult to find someone that’s tolerant of my speech...

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postr/StutterFeb 24, 2023
5 points

A dating app for stutterers?

A dating app for stutterers? After reading this subreddit for a few years, I’ve realized that some people have pretty extreme stutters that make things much harder than my own personal experience was ...

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