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commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
2 points

Thank you for your comment; it is well appreciated! Your right, I mostly avoid situations where I will go talk to others that I think will initiate my stutter. But then, I try to talk to others, like ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
1 points

Thank you for your comment; it is well appreciated! Your right, I mostly avoid situations where I will go talk to others that I think will initiate my stutter. But then, I try to talk to others, like ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
1 points

I feel ya. Two words I struggle with all the time are my name and the state I grew up in, Ohio. People always just stare at me as I try to get my name out if I try to tell them where I am from. It suc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2024
6 points

Me too. I feel guilty feeling so trapped by an issue that seems a lot more tame to other people, but I just hate not being able to hold a normal conversation. It sucks and it’s impacting my relationsh...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2024
8 points

I can clearly understand how you feel. I'm 16 yo and I also stutter and I feel like I've to face a problem that rarely anybody does and speaking is so common everybody can speak why can't I etc etc. B...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
postr/StutterApr 26, 2024
12 points

Anxiety filled life - rant

Anxiety filled life - rant I don’t know if I was born with anxiety and a stutter coincidently. Or if my stutter is the reason for my constant anxiety. But either way, this combination sucks. If I anti...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2024
2 points

Imagine if you hadn't felt those negative feelings of fear when you stuttered, what do you think would have happened? Not to sound condescending or anything, but in my opinion, that's where you could ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2024
16 points

Everybody stutters sometimes. Your friend probably just felt a little bad for you if you were struggling. If it really bothers you you could mention it to them and see what they say. But you aren’t...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 25, 2024
31 points

Stuttered in front of my best friend today

Stuttered in front of my best friend today Today I went out with my close friend after a while and coz I’m super comfortable with her I don’t stutter around her that much. But while giving my order t...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2024
1 points

I’m in the same boat, people think I’m stupid also and when I said I wanted to be a surgeon I was made fun of by others in my class and from then on I wanted to quit my dreams...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic LifeHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2024
2 points

Gee, my self-confidence is very high. No social anxiety at all but my stutter is random, though very mild. Its the embarrassment when I do stutter that bothers me because I'm 98% fluent and if I stutt...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2024
3 points

I am also 17 I hate that I stutter so much. When I am talking to my self I can talk just fine. I have tried so hard to stop but nothing works. Most kids in my grade think I am an autistic idiot and do...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2024
2 points

I know it may be too late at this point, but I would just go and do it. Stuttering and all! I don't give a F about the teammates or the teacher, but I do care about how you feel about yourself. Do it ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2024
5 points

Imo, I’m okay with not having a cure and I think that there is a fair amount of research regarding stammering. Since stammering can be considered a disability and/or impairment, I believe that wanting...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideMedicalization / NeurodiversityShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2024
1 points

Been feeling the same way. My name is my biggest issue when it comes to speech blocks. I hate going to the doctors even if I'm terribly sick because I'm afraid that I may have to say my name(obviously...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2024
2 points

I stutter when I get nervous and then I get nervous when I stutter. Or sometimes I don't say my words loud enough and then someone asks me to repeat what I've just said and I try to repeat it without ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Situational VariabilityAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2024
3 points

I asked my neurologist about this years ago because I was curious. He said it could be linked but it’s more likely to be a phycological response from years of “trauma” anything from bullying to just p...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2024
2 points

Sorry about that. During my training school for my first job as a banker, we were given a research and presentation to do. We were 5 in my group. I basically did the bulk of the research and did the s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2024
3 points

UPDATE: Well, my teacher did answer my email and I disclosed it with her but I got no response lmao. My tutor supposedly was going to email her too, I don't know if she did, but knowing her she wouldn...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2024
3 points

Ugh, high school presentations were the worst. I stuttered on the word “murderer” (cannot remember the topic) and my group told me that I can’t do that....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment