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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
2 points

Not a dude but I have this guy online friend that I talk with everyday and it's after few months that I discover he also have a stutter. We both hiding it because we thought it's irrelevant for our fr...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
1 points

My partner has a stutter. His stutter was probably the worst on our first date more than any other time I've been with him. At first, it caught me off guard. He didn't disclose it before the date, an...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
2 points

i can vouch for this, in my school days, a big give away that girl is crushing on me, is she says ''i think ur stutter is cute'' to op: honestly u just have to go for it. worst case Sanrio she wil...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
3 points

Same… honestly I had so many girls tell me after high school they liked me but thought I wasn’t interested because I never talked to them. In hindsight, senior year I asked a girl to homecoming dance...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
1 points

If you have a severe stutter and you see a girl you wanna approach ask yourself would she wanna be seen with you and be heard with you. Imagine going to a a store or restaurant having too talk. Try to...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
1 points

This answer is easy for me and someone already said it too and it’s that I don’t approach girls. You can search up what girls don’t like when you approach them on and some of the answers would be when...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
8 points

Same. Had more than a few come up to me at our 20th and ask why I didn’t ask them out. All were in multiple classes with and knew well about my stutter. I was just scared witless at that age. Moral ...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
3 points

Just be yourself. I’ve found my stutter is a “bitch repellent,” and it made dating FAR easier when they weed themselves out upfront rather than me having to figure it out months later. When I introduc...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
1 points

Not a dude but I usually use dating apps to try to find romantic relationships. Though apps are a lot harder as a guy to get matches...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
2 points

I honestly just walk up to em ,smile , say hi /how u doing or Lil wave ..start the rappin(casually talking) with her.. then I throw in I got a speech problem .. When I'm out partying..especially whe...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
9 points

Yes really. On top of my stutter, I was incredibly shy around girls. Even if I was fluent, I probably wouldn't have had the nerve to ask a girl out in high school. If it wasn't for girls being attract...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
5 points

Weirdly enough, In my whole 22 years on this planet, I also have never met someone who stuttered in real life when I’m going about my day or at least I didn’t notice it. And by this I want to say that...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
2 points

Almost everyone has anxiety approaching girls. You just have to go for it. The more you do it the easier it’ll be. If you want to start approaching girls drop your balls already and do it. If you want...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
3 points

It’s a numbers game. You’re eventually going to find a nice girl who appreciates you risking embarrassment to talk to her....

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
6 points

Act like yourself, and remember that most people in adult life DGAF. Maybe even make fun of yourself a bit. Emphasize your good qualities, and understand that women can be just as shy as you. Ask a...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
4 points

Still in high school here apperantly many girls have told me that they find it "cute" so ig that's a win...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
-6 points

Sit at a bar. Nurse a drink until the bar starts closing down. Then, approach the last female left at the bar. That’s your girl...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
4 points

Get some alcohol in your body before you go to any girl idk about you but always works for me Plus disclose your stutter most of the time they are cool with it If you directly don't want to talk about...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
4 points

I just go up to them confidently and say something like “Hey I thought you were cute can I get your number or snap?” And it works. Even if I stutter they don’t care about it. Stutter with confidence a...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
5 points

It really hard at first tbh. I think the key is the more you try to talk to girls the easier it going to be. For me after many times I tried to approach a girl, I gain more confidence and spoke more ...

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