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commentr/StutterMay 7, 2024
1 points

Yea, got bullied in school specifically middle school through high school. In college and beyond the bullying becomes different. Normies see stutters as different...

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commentr/StutterMay 7, 2024
8 points

I feel like there's a lot of ingrained self loathing for many of us. I could be wrong, maybe the majority are cool with their stutters? Personally, I feel like I would have had a massively different o...

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postr/StutterMay 7, 2024
20 points

i'm a Stutterer, but I can't imagine dating a Stutterer girlfriend

i'm a Stutterer, but I can't imagine dating a Stutterer girlfriend as a part of my self hate i can't live with another Stutterer like me it seems like i'm the bad guy but really I can't live like th...

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commentr/StutterMay 7, 2024
5 points

I feel this so hard. Alot of people who don't stutter would probably feel uncomfortable and feel sorry for us but we just want to be heard and for people to not treat us like we are stupid....

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commentr/StutterMay 7, 2024
2 points

What’s more disturbing is why would your parents hit you after someone asked you why you were quiet. I hope you meant playfully hit you to help you encourage to speak out more despite stuttering. I ...

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postr/StutterMay 7, 2024
14 points

My crush asked me why I'm so quiet and I'm kind of upset about it

My crush asked me why I'm so quiet and I'm kind of upset about it Don't get me wrong, 9 times out of 10, people don't have any bad intentions when asking that. It's just that when I was younger, if s...

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postr/StutterMay 7, 2024
9 points

I really want to sound smooth and cool but I can't

I really want to sound smooth and cool but I can't I feel like I sound cool in my head, but I just can't in really life. If I make a joke or a funny comment, people usually still laugh, but I'll stil...

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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2024
2 points

where I'm from, you switch schools in 5th grade and that was unfortunately a very traumatic experience for me. I never realized I stuttered until I changed schools, it was like a slap in the face. I h...

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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2024
1 points

Yes, I was teased a lot. Mocked quite frequently. I would go the entire 8 hour school day without drinking one sip of water because I was too afraid to raise my hand to ask to go to the bathroom....

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postr/StutterMay 6, 2024
7 points

i hate hearing my video/ audio recording that i missed

i hate hearing my video/ audio recording that i missed most of my audio recordings for WhatsApp or telegram are in relaxed and understandable tone but i hate recording my stutter i hate that so muc...

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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2024
1 points

I don’t experience full on bullying, cyberbullied over a discord call at very most over my stutter. I do experience some sort of teasing pretty much every other day in school. Today I had a group pres...

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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2024
1 points

Now this a question: When I was in second grade there was this real shit kid who would go Sc, Sc, Sc, Sc to me whenever he saw me. My name is Scott and at that point in my life I did not have a stut...

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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2024
6 points

i remember there was a time i went to an after school club, when i was 10, and they would ask us if we want toast with butter or jam, or a cookie, i then answered and said “butter and j-j-jam please” ...

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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2024
3 points

I've always been my own worst bully and critic. I was never openly bullied about it, it's always been an inner battle....

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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2024
8 points

As a child, I cared a lot and was very self concious. The two incidents I can remember both ended in a serious talk with my teacher, the whole class and with a lot of sobbing from my side. The weird t...

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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2024
6 points

I had a few incidents in school that I remember well till this day. But I feel I was lucky because my best friend was very popular and people did not mess with her. I was not popular, super shy, Not ...

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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2024
1 points

Bhai jab me bacha tha tab mene bahut sara kha liya tha jisse jisse meri andar garmi hogayi aur bolne me dikat hone lagi(kuch logo ko khas kar bacho ko agar garam chij khilaoge toh duban chalani muskil...

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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2024
1 points

I think you might be projecting your own insecurities here. I’ve never met anyone, man or woman, who viewed stuttering as creepy....

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commentr/StutterMay 5, 2024
1 points

Man I am white but an immigrant (for all intents people can’t tell unless I’m tired and the accent comes out), and this has happened before. It’s always incredibly condescending...

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commentr/StutterMay 5, 2024
3 points

Same I don't like being embarrassed because of my stuttering...

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