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postr/StutterNov 17, 2022
8 points

Do you get frustrated or embarrassed if you greet someone and get no response?

Do you get frustrated or embarrassed if you greet someone and get no response? I find it very frustrating, because it just takes so much effort for me to eek out even a hi and then not get any respons...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2022
1 points

I have an additional theory about those terrible tempers. Angry taking uses a physical force that maybe overrides the diaphragm/vocal chord tension. I also believe that this tension comes directly f...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightFluency TechniquesSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2022
1 points

Dam it--I wish I could forget that I stuttered and had superior confidence!!! I NEVER worry about stuttering and I stutter nasty!!! This is hell for me!!! I never ever have focused on how I say thin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2022
0 points

Wtf are you saying bro, stuttering is a choice. Your committed to it subconsciously. Stop being a bitch and start trying to get rid of it. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, and stop expecting people to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
9 points

I also feel this way... and also have the felling of anger because I have to put tons of effort to try to achieve what is basic to someone else and still won't be 100%. sometimes I fell life is injust...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerSadness & HopelessnessHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
2 points

Stutterers have so much to say that they hold inside. It's so frustrating. They usually write beautifully because everything comes out when they write. And most stutterers are very mild mannered peopl...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Frustration & AngerPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2022
2 points

It does suck, my family speaks Spanish and my stutter comes out more in Spanish. So it’s tough not being able to fully talk to my own family. I also dont talk or I don’t start conversations if I feel ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Frustration & AngerAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2022
2 points

Glad you liked it. :) On review a day later I thought I should add one thing: While my efforts to lean in to and own my dysfluency have helped a lot with how I feel about it in regards to feelings...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2022
2 points

Sorry to hear about your terrible evening. Being drunk will bring out the truth in people. She obviously doesn't have any kind of empathy towards you and your stutter. Just treat her as a room-mate a...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2022
31 points

Yeah, she sounds like an a$$hole no offense. Being drunk doesn't excuse of being a horrible person. I know many people who drink and they know about my stutter, None of them had ever mocked my stutter...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2022
2 points

I have some advice for you. Its not the best of advice in some peoples eyes.. I stutter too and I had to take matters into my own hands. Who ever picks on a person with a speech impediment is the ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2022
2 points

I laugh harder than they do, like manic laughter. If you can’t beat them, join em. Also, people won’t cross with psychos. So there’s that. This is terrible advice but it works for me....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2022
1 points

Ooh I think your on something, I do now think I subconsciously stop trying when speaking to people who know about the stutter Cus idk I might think it’s to late or something and I’m maybe to obsessed ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2022
2 points

It fells so bad to us to have to fight ten times more to achieve something that is basic to everyone and sometimes don't even get the result we deserve People don't get the amount and the severety o...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of LifeAdvice Requests+3 more
postr/StutterNov 9, 2022
72 points

you guys ever stutter in a formal conversation and when it ends you wish you were never born? because same

you guys ever stutter in a formal conversation and when it ends you wish you were never born? because same i work in retail and it just makes me wanna be unemployed but i cant because i need the money...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Frustration & AngerShame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2022
3 points

I wouldn't normally give this advice, but the situation allows it. Don't just say it. Yell it. Strong and loud. Explode out of your chest. Howl that number. Put all of your stuttering frustration / r...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Frustration & AngerStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2022
1 points

Another thought - I noticed that when I got mad, I got fluent. I think it’s partially bc the physical act of almost-yelling automatically overrides the block mechanism. .After a while, I think that...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Frustration & AngerStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2022
2 points

totally understand that! Ever had the experience of getting annoyed when someone's talking to you about your stutter and trying to be nice, but totally doens't understand, and then you suddenly get ...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterNov 5, 2022
34 points

barely hanging on...it's getting bad again.

barely hanging on...it's getting bad again. just need to vent. I'm Tom and I'm from Australia, it's great to meet you all. Over the past 2 months my stutter has begun to get worse again, confirming ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Stress & Fight/FlightCycles & RandomnessShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
13 points

Ya my whole family told me over and over I'd outgrow it. And then on family gatherings I would here them ask my mom if I've outgrown it yet. Them making a big deal out of it, and constantly telling me...

Causes & VariabilityTherapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsSeeking TherapyFrustration & Anger