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postr/StutterJun 3, 2024
8 points

What do I do?

What do I do? So in around January this girl showed interest in me over Snapchat, however I rather stupidly pulled a cowardly move and just ignored her. At the time I was in a much worse place and bas...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2024
2 points

More than I’d like to admit. I talk on the phone all day (ironically) and I stutter and clutter during every God forsaken phone call and I can’t stop! It’s really embarrassing! Trying to get a positio...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesRepetitions & ProlongationsShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2024
1 points

I feel this way too about my stutter!! The embarrassment is getting to my head and making not enjoying talking to people because of it because most people can’t wait or be patient and even try to fini...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentListener ReactionsHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2024
1 points

I feel like this is why I avoid a lot of things/people because I know I’m going to stutter and be embarrassed lol...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2024
6 points

There’s “bad” as in the proportion of your speech that is affected by it, but then there’s “bad” relating to how it affects you. There are covert stutterers who very rarely stutter, but are deeply af...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJun 2, 2024
29 points

I feel cursed and helpless

I feel cursed and helpless There is not a single day that I don't think about my condition and how it makes my life so miserable. Everything started when I was a little kid, a different kid that didn'...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 31, 2024
4 points

I hate myself for it, and try to block it out of my brain afterwards...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 31, 2024
4 points

In third year at school trying to say the word "studying" in front of the whole class. One of the most embarrassing moments of my life...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
3 points

Yes, expectation is another factor. On a related but slightly different example, if I expect to stutter on a word or phrase, then I will. It's like knowing I'm going to have difficulty saying it. All ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
1 points

I know it’s hard but please try not to worry about what others think.  I’ve been there done that it does get better once you realise no one else’s opinions matter especially if they’re being nasty You...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
2 points

Yeah man exactly. I've been through that all my life also, and have had horrendous experiences..but at my age even though I'm younger than you by almost 20 years I'm burnt out and done with life.. I u...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
4 points

I don't remember most of my childhood but the first incident that stook with me was when I was 6 and I had just moved into a new building, i was hanging out with the kids and I repeated a word for a l...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
2 points

I'm 52 and I know the exact situation you described ! Nothing worse than a grown ass man feeling like a little kid in front of a room full of people. I've been in that situation all my life and thou...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
7 points

When I first started stammering, I didn't really think of it as a big deal, until a day when I raised my hand to answer a question in class, I was trying very hard to get the answer out but I was stuc...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
6 points

First memory I have is from (I think) 1st grade. Remember talking to someone after lunch and I couldn’t get a word out. As I was struggling, they just looked at me and walked away. Things like that wo...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentQuality of LifeAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
3 points

I'd tell the instructor that I stutter and it's too much for me to present in front of others. I'd take that embarrassment over blocking, stuttering, and sweating in front of a group of people any day...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMay 30, 2024
15 points

Why is stuttering so embarrassing to talk about?

Why is stuttering so embarrassing to talk about? I notice that me, and a lot of other people who stutter are really embarrassed about their stutter and hate talking about it. Also it seems to be a co...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMay 29, 2024
46 points

I can’t take it anymore

I can’t take it anymore I have a severe stutter and I am becoming 99% nonverbal because of panic and severe anxiety. I know at this point it’s not the stuttering itself; it’s the trauma building up...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
1 points

Terrible. I had a close group of friends who understood and had my back, but anyone outside of those few individuals I found myself ridiculed. Dating was nearly non-existent....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
1 points

It was terrible! I wouldn’t wish my experience on my worst enemy. I’m still struggling to deal with the trauma....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment