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commentr/StutterJun 17, 2024
1 points

You could be impulsive and break up now. Or take more time and go to bed and make a decision later. Wait until you’ve had a chance to talk about the argument with each other....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2024
3 points

If you don't leave, then that's on you. That's extremely disrespectful! My wife would never do something like this and we have had our bad arguments. Have some respect for yourself....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2024
9 points

That's a pretty harsh line to cross. Doing something like that isn't an accident, it's meant to cut deep. Do you want to be with someone who tries to intentionally hurt you? If you can move past it, m...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2024
8 points

It’s still a very low blow especially if he knows you have struggled with it in the past. If so, he knows used insecurities or “weaknesses” and to belittle you. What did he think making fun of you wou...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2024
14 points

yes 😭 it makes me wish i didn’t even say anything to begin with. Or i get so proud that’s it’s over and i did it and then when they ask again i get upset bc i know what’s abt to come...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterJun 15, 2024
8 points

I just made the best and funniest presentation I’ve made in a while… and butchered it

I just made the best and funniest presentation I’ve made in a while… and butchered it I stuttered so much and feel like shit, and my teacher graded me 5% off for talking too fast as a final fuck you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2024
3 points

Retail worker, where I've always loved being on the till. I'll be damn if I let my stutter ruin my day. I've had a lot of embarrassing days at work due to my stutter, but I like to think most of that ...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Employment & CareerShame & EmbarrassmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/stutteringJun 14, 2024
1 points

Oh my god this is crazy bc I was just now (literally one second ago) talking to some of my friends about my stutter block. Some words and letters really mess me up and when I can’t get them out of my ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2024
1 points

I hide it from everyone in my life or atleast i think i am 😂 i dread report my throat hurts after usually on the car ride home.. i just speak slower and notice ppl get inpatient and tap their feet so...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2024
2 points

I hate it when people laugh or smirk when I'm struggling with a block like damn. I'm trying here....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2024
4 points

Sales Admin. Talking to walk-in customers, phone calls from customers, salesmen, vendors, other company branches, etc. I stutter the most on the phone. It can be quite frustrating/embarrassing, but ...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterJun 13, 2024
35 points

Rude Comments at Work

Rude Comments at Work I work as a hostess where I talk to people all the time. I get comments or people laugh and like it’s fine I brush it off. But I was already feeling emotional last night and toda...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterJun 13, 2024
8 points

And it dawns once again

And it dawns once again In reference to my earlier post regarding rejection at the interview round for many educational institutes because I couldn't speak directly ( I stutter at every 2nd word ) an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesPropositionality & WeightShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterJun 12, 2024
63 points

People that say “no one cares if you stutter” is absolutely BS

People that say “no one cares if you stutter” is absolutely BS I started working as a bank teller and I’ve been nervous to do drive thru transactions because for some reason it makes me nervous, and t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
postr/StutterJun 12, 2024
5 points

We’re in the same boat

We’re in the same boat My younger brother who is about ten has a severe stutter. He’s told my dad he’s getting picked on at school and the school isn’t very helpful with the bullying. My dad has told ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceParent & Caregiver
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentParent Emotions & Guilt
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
1 points

And yes it was excruciating - every post in here (so 95%) are all super depressive and negative questions etc well I understand why obviously lol it feels that bad til it’s gone then poof. U can focus...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
5 points

Are you currently in therapy? Your whole posthistory is about how worthless you feel and how hung up you still are about that guy. It isnt good for your mental health....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2024
1 points

I get you, I'm only 18, and my mental health, self-esteem, and outlook on life are already fucked to be honest. I'm leaving school forever in the next few days without a job lined up and no ambitions ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/overcome_stutteringJun 10, 2024
1 points

In my presentations, all the class suddenly looks at me pathetically and they think that I'm nervous, guys I'm not nervous... I speak usually like this, I really get hurted from the way they're lookin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2024
1 points

>no one realizes this is a diagnosable thing and she should be in therapy for it Depends on the therapy. Most of my experiences with therapy were a waste of time and even had a negative impact. Becau...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentTherapy Experiences+2 more