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commentr/StutterJul 14, 2023
3 points

So far, I’m not dead lol. I have a job as a babysitter (of course with the anxiety of “maybe they’ll mimic me and I’ll have to explain to them and even after that I’ll be anxious”, but I still have a ...

Speech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Repetitions & ProlongationsPhysical TensionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2023
3 points

I'm 22M who stutters. How has it affected your social life and dating life? Since it's difficult for guys to date and with this stutter it's extremely difficult for me to find a job and have a dating ...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2023
2 points

I tell her all the time she's too good for me. She's improved every aspect of my life. Love is one thing, but this woman KNOWS me, to the point where she knows what I'm gonna do before I do it, even ...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyHope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2023
2 points

I think spaghetti would stick at a much higher rate than current speech therapy methods. I was more fluent when I had to talk all day long as an adult. I have a girlfriend but when I don’t see her I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionCycles & RandomnessDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2023
-6 points

How sexy do you think you sound when you stutter during sex talk...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2023
6 points

Has stuttering affected your dating life? How do guys/girls react when they find out?...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2023
9 points

It helps alot. Once I start talking, I have her undivided attention until I'm done. She never tries to finish words for me unless I give her a clear indicator that I'm struggling. Idk when it happened...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceListener Reactions
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2023
11 points

Gotta go through it to grow through it. I just made 28 last month and I'm still socially awkward and avoid conversation, but I'm working on it. My fiance has been a big confidence boost as she is cons...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2023
1 points

19 M and my social anxiety is so bad i dont even know what to say. I cant start a conversation or maintain one. Very few friendships which last really short. No friend group, no female friends and of ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
2 points

wow, sounds like an advantage then, im the opposite. talking to girls definitely doesnt make my stutter any better :P...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
1 points

I am M26. I am still single. I had many crush in my college life/school life and also now in my work life. I have never been able to talk with them because I stutter a lot. Talking to girls is even mo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
9 points

im 30 with no university degree and have never had realtionship. i dropped out of uni in my early 20s and took a job at a warehouse instead. got lucky and switched to a less phyically demanding job, t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2023
2 points

30m here, i have a mild to moderate stutter i would say. i dont know what i really want to say with this comment, but my virginity somehow didnt bother me until i turned 30. i then went on tinder and...

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Dating & RomanceFriendships & BelongingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2023
4 points

Yes indeed it is a blessing, it's great seeing them get on so well in life with nothing holding them back, they are both confident and outgoing, totally opposite to me.....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceFriendships & BelongingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
2 points

Thanks man. Whenever she serves me I try to make small talk and be polite and she’s always very polite in return. My goal is to get her to be familiar enough with me so that I can ask her out soon wit...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Mindfulness & BreathingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
3 points

You should holla at the bartender. You only live once my dude. Closed mouths don’t get fed. take your time and talk, work on your breathing, let her do most of the talking. Hang in there, there’s bett...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Dating & RomanceMindfulness & BreathingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
3 points

I also have stutter (F) and my girlfriend accept er me for who I am. Right parson will come along! Also this is such an ick that your parents are telling you that. Sexuality is something very private ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & PrideFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
3 points

Wow, this was an interesting post. Some of the things you're experiencing I don't think I've had to deal with, atleast to your extent. I hope your able to experience the joys of life, because you def...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationMindset shiftDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
6 points

Virginity is so stupid. Nothing changes after you have it you aren’t magically wiser. Both your parents and sister shouldn’t be this involved in your sex life it’s not their business. Keep doing you a...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
2 points

Yeah my future career and future relationship prospects have probably been the biggest stressors other than handling stutters. Sometimes my home life isn’t super stable as my parents marriage has been...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerDating & RomanceSuicidal Ideation & High Distress+1 more