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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2018
4 points

Agreed. I don't care about others like that - really, I don't have the resources to _also_ care about them, since I'm already very involved in speaking. Of course, we could talk about indirect goals,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2018
4 points

>“For years we have gone to speech therapy to change the way we speak to make it more comfortable for others. Can't speak for everyone, but that was never my motivation for going to speech therapy...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2018
1 points

So, I didn't really know what to expect as far as the listener's reaction was concerned. A few days ago, some representatives from the local NSA chapter came to speak to our class, and one man describ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2018
1 points

Yes that is correct I stutter less in English because I need to speak sentences slowly to frame sentences in my mind . And my mind is busy framing sentences rather than thinking what other person thin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2018
2 points

I put lot of effort and dedication on my speech to get better .but a small interaction can reset my speech back to stuttering. Now I just feel even worse and sorry for myself for putting so much energ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2018
2 points

It makes my stutter even worse . But in my first speech therapy I couldn’t stutter may be because I was comfortable with my therapist and speaking language other than my mother tongue makes me speak...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2018
6 points

I think it's a great idea, but only if you really go for it. You can't half ass it and pull out when things start to feel uncomfortable. I would say after you do a few, change to goal to having it aw...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2018
6 points

I'm 35, I stuttered severely as a child. At the surface it sounds... Odd I guess. You might learn about the ways other people react, but for me it is the cumulative experiences that you have (oh not ...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2018
3 points

I met her online and we texted a lot. We then later started skyping and while I tried to hide my stutter by avoiding bad words she of course noticed it anyways but genuinely didn't care. On the contr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2018
3 points

I was wondering, how you can get a girlfriend if you have these struggles to even express yourself and a lot of avoidance behaviours. How the heck does this happen? I have a mild stutter and sometimes...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2018
1 points

I used to have a terrible time on the phone (and still do to some extent) but the past year I've really been practicing by calling and talking to scammers on the phone. I noticed I can kinda put mysel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesQuality of Life
postr/StutterJun 12, 2018
31 points

I have only one issue with my stutter.

I have only one issue with my stutter. I've stuttered my whole life, it can get bad at times, but generally I don't think about it until I meet someone new or get funny looks. Fuck 'em, I don't need '...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJun 12, 2018
23 points

My experiences during stutter therapy

My experiences during stutter therapy #1 Introduction First of all, I'd like to introduce myself. I'm a 27 year old student, hopfully finishing my masters soon. Studying engineering, I often need very...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterJun 12, 2018
6 points

A tip to overcome stuttering

A tip to overcome stuttering This advice might be useful for non English speakers. My mother tongue is not English. When I was stuttering as a kid, my parents advised me to replace the word/phrase I ...

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Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2018
1 points

It happens to me too. Especially when I’m going through a rough spot. It helps me to be aware of it and intentionally speak fluently when I talk to myself. It helps me pull out of a rough patch. We ca...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindfulness & BreathingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2018
1 points

I have always had this issue. Have you tried pronouncing the word in a different way? Maybe try Yello! That's a pretty common way of saying hello anyways :P ...

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Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2018
3 points

We all have differing severity of the condition so I wouldn't know how bad it is for you. For me currently, I am able to catch my anxiety building up pretty early on (sort of like having an arbitrary ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2018
7 points

Hey OP, I've been there and definitely can relate to this situation. I can confidently say from my own experience that this is an issue or disorder that can be helped/improved on! What I have (and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2018
2 points

This might be because you're really emphasising the 'H', causing tension in your vocal cords and blocking. Try letting air out before you speak, and don't pause before speaking, start to speak as yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2018
2 points

You need to practice, practice, practice. Stuttering happens, knowing when and what to say helps. Practice in front of the mirror, practice to your dog, practice to your mom, practice to your friend,...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Preparation & RehearsalAvoidance & Substitution