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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2023
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Use the “fuck this” feeling and turn it around. Fuck people who mock or bully. Fuck having to be fluent. Fuck feeling like I have to prove myself. Fuck avoiding talking. . Enough....

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Frustration & AngerMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2023
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Test out my theory, and experience.. Sign up for the Dale Carnegie course in your area. It's like 8, once a week classes, and around $600. You'll find out that you're a capable as anyone else. Every...

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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2023
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Hey man, that's not the answer. That will only compound your issues. Keep your head up and learn to respect your self from within, stop caring about what others think. I know that easy to say, but t...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2023
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I can also go long stretches being fluent to the point that people wouldn’t think I stutter. And some people have said I don’t but I know I do. For me it’s like my being gay and autistic. I don’t an...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2023
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I know this is late but I had a video interview a few months back, cool tip I found out, STARE AT YOURSELF, such a cool cheat code, im sure we’ve all spent a good amount of time staring at ourselves i...

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Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2023
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Also when I do stutter infront of casual people I’m socializing with, psychologically I try to think of them as npc’s or just kinda lame on cool people list and that I don’t actually care what they th...

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Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2023
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What helped me with socializing Is realizing, am I nervous because I’m genuinely scared of socializing, or am I nervous of stuttering? I feel like I’m naturally very pleased with socializing if I neve...

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Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2023
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Also I have a certain inner confidence I’ve developed within myself to where I essentially think I’m better than the person I’m with(sounds messed up but it helps so much with staying calm) that even ...

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Mindset shiftHope & MotivationShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2023
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Hey I’ve had a pretty strong stutter throughout my childhood and young adult hood, each year getting slighter better but it’s still very much with me, I’ve noticed, my stutter is at its complete lowes...

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Situational VariabilityMindset shiftPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2023
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Alter ego helps me, see yourself as a the main characters in movies when they always know how to captivate the room, I always used real actors as a big inspiration to my confidence, become an actor wh...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2023
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They won’t care about it, know it will likely happen, move on and kill that presentation. Fear is a choice, don’t give it any space....

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Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2023
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well realistically you most likely won’t be able to not stutter completely tomorrow, so maybe try working on not giving that stutter “thought” too much attention, I know when I feel a stutter coming u...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2023
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I set on the journey to find a cure 3 to 4 years ago, with the intention to find a cure for myself and all stutterers. It's been a hell of a journey, and transformed my life in all aspects, aspects I ...

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postr/StutterNov 6, 2023
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Trying is always Goal - Orientated

Trying is always Goal - Orientated We are always **trying** to speak. Like if speaking is an activity. Like dropping the ball into the basqueball hoop. Trying is always goal orientated. You are lookin...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2023
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LOL sure Jan. It's not like many/most of us have gone through some combination of speech therapy, regular therapy, medication, and alternative treatments such as mindfulness and meditation practices...

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Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2023
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Hmmm I have a very strong mind and spirit and I'm all over these posts in this group. I do believe it is a mindset thing, but in NO way ,what so ever, do I believe you can just STOP stuttering by ju...

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Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2023
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I treat it by not giving a fuck anymore (it’s not severe though). The more I think about my stutter the more I stutter....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterNov 6, 2023
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People just accept stuttering like its not treatable

People just accept stuttering like its not treatable For some time now I am in the discord of the subreddit and I noticed a lot of people are just accepting the fact that they stutter and live with it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2023
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I appreciate your advice! I see some similarities between him and you, as in him not letting his stutter define him and I wouldn’t want him to be discouraged by me bringing it up. I think I’ll hold of...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2023
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I used to have the same thing happen to me. Change your mindset a bit look forward to picking up the phone. Say to yourself multiple times a day “I LOVE TALKING ON THE PHONE” u will see results...

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