Search

postr/StutterDec 3, 2018
9 points

Feeling Down. Don't know what to do :(

Feeling Down. Don't know what to do :( I don't know what to do. This year I have been trying to adapt a change about my stutter and I have made some changes but they're not big enough changes to reall...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFluency TechniquesPhysical Tension+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2018
21 points

I’m exactly the same. It’s infuriating. I haven’t repeated a sound since I was 7 or 8. Just block. 99% of people don’t know I have a stutter which is a blessing, but the constant word swapping is exha...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2018
2 points

He’s just wants to “be able to speak right”....his words not mine. Im definitely hypersensitive being a person that stutters myself. But you make an important poI think- thanks!...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2018
1 points

I would give a +1 to cbd as well. I honestly don't think it could hurt. My stutter was definitely on the severe side when I was younger. It was very frustrating.. Sometimes around 1996 my parents ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & SupportAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideValidation & EmpathyAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2018
2 points

I was on the speech team my senior year. It was tough when I didn’t do well but super rewarding when I did. A few times I had to stop because I lost confidence, but my best piece was in a duo which ma...

Causes & VariabilitySchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Situational VariabilitySchool & Academic LifeAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2018
1 points

I have never tried this technique, but it's getting the initial word out that I find difficult, I sometimes clear my throat or cough to almost get the persons attention or I find if I say "yeah" befor...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionListener Reactions
commentr/StutterNov 28, 2018
2 points

Yeah, I'm exactly the same way. What's weird is that once the other person understands the word I'm trying to say and says it for me, it suddenly becomes easier for me to say the word. Similarly, at r...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentExperiential Association
commentr/StutterNov 28, 2018
1 points

I really understand your frustration, I speak a lot with people I know, even if I stutter, I just keep going, and I don't mind to laugh about it. The thing is with people I don't know so well, I just ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2018
1 points

I most often know in advance when a word will become a struggle, which at least gives me some time to think of similar alternative words. The problem is that it often makes me choose to stay quiet whe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2018
2 points

I can come across as very quiet with people that don't really know me too well, because it's a lot easier to stay quiet that talk sometimes, so when someone at work makes a joke, I've got a great come...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2018
1 points

I hate that feeling waiting for your turn to say your order as the server goes around the table, I always do the pointing at the menu thing, for some reason I find it easier if the person already know...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2018
3 points

Wife still does this to me far too often, we pop into Starbucks "can you get me a caramel latte while I go to the toilet" ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2018
2 points

Once I helped get coffee for my friend, and she wants something I don’t usually have because I cannot say the name to order it, and it’s “large ice mocha latte” ... The guy was chill about it, just co...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2018
5 points

I think this is why I talk so fast, when it's going well I just want to get it all out, anyone else been told they talk fast?...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2018
5 points

Yup same thing happens to me. That’s probably why we all got A+ in English class haha. We’re always having to look up different synonyms for words. But yeah I feel you. When I’m in conversation I’m ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2018
1 points

I go through the same thing. I tend to avoid certain words when I can. When I'm a restaurant ordering food I only choose items that I know I'm not going to mess up. So even if I really want the spicy ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2018
10 points

Yes. It’s so bizarre that I can describe the place without a stutter, but I can’t say the place itself. Thanks, brain!...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2018
10 points

Yea I know it too, but sometimes there’s no word to switch with the words I’m going to say. Like... food/ drink names.....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterNov 27, 2018
24 points

Do you know when you are going to struggle getting a word out?

Do you know when you are going to struggle getting a word out? When I am trying to have a conversation I already know that I'm not going to be able to say a word so I am constantly changing what I'm a...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2018
8 points

Why is it a problem if you're going to stutter?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception