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commentr/StutterMar 14, 2019
2 points

It actually went surprisingly well. The first was alright, 2nd went much better. But the interviewer had more of a calm style. They both understood after I told them about my stutter, like usual. Prep...

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commentr/StutterMar 14, 2019
1 points

Omg I do that too! Sometimes I’ll just have to blurt something out and didn’t mean to be so loud. Especially over the phone. But hmm, I’ll have to try that out. I’m 23 and in the past couple years I u...

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commentr/StutterMar 14, 2019
1 points

Just realized this happens to me too. It's one of the worst!I don't know about you, but I've found it helps to pre-emptively tell people I'm going to be talking to a lot that I stutter and explain to ...

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commentr/StutterMar 14, 2019
1 points

This. I worked in a hotel and had to stutter through check in processes and guest/employee issues all day long for over 2 years. By shamelessly stuttering and accepting that it was there, no one comme...

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commentr/StutterMar 14, 2019
1 points

You can either change the word or drop the first letter of the word. Like if I had to say “apple” but knew I was gonna stutter at “a-a-apple” I would say “pull” fast. If you do it fast enough In regul...

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commentr/StutterMar 14, 2019
2 points

I know what word I will stutter on and that’s what will cause me to stutter. People always tell me to “just calm down” or ask me why I’m afraid to speak and it’s infuriating. They just don’t know thou...

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commentr/StutterMar 14, 2019
1 points

I work in the hospitality industry as a front desk manager and I am a female who stutters. I’ve stuttered since I was a child and although it was much worse as a child I still struggle at the age of 2...

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commentr/StutterMar 14, 2019
1 points

This! People always tell me to “calm down” because they think I’m afraid to say something when in reality I just stutter....

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commentr/StutterMar 14, 2019
2 points

Another girl stutterer here. I've also never met a female stutterer in real life and have only seen some online. As I inherited it from the male side of my family I don't believe female stuttering dif...

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commentr/StutterMar 14, 2019
1 points

I thought about it for a long time and finally changed my legal name last year. Its been a liberating year since. I think the overall psychological impact of not stuttering when I introduce myself has...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
1 points

Even though most people know that stuttering is involuntary, an assumption I see often is that a bout of stuttering is triggered by general nervousness/uneasiness, unpreparedness (e.g. for a meeting/p...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
2 points

Not sure if it counts as a misconception but I sometimes find it hard to start talking early in the morning so I often stay quiet for a lot of breakfast conversation at work (it's 7-7 shifts so we get...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
3 points

Here’s a classic one: when people say to “take a deep breath” when you stutter. If it was as easy as that, I wouldn’t stutter at all! Stuttering is much more than a simple breathing problem. It’s a ...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
1 points

I've always used substitute words where possible. And a variety of tics and tricks when it's unavoidable. But, sad to say, sometimes I've just avoided the situation entirely. ("God would look at tha...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
1 points

Same. Struggle through it- There's really no other choice and it's worth it. Prepare as much as you can, know what you want to say, and practice. It may or may not help, but I've found when I understa...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
3 points

This guy knows how to stutter. ​ I'm about the same age and in a good job. Though I feel my career was hindered at the beginning, it was because of my \*fear\* of stammering. &#x200...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
3 points

I can relate - I've been in the business world for almost 20 years (I'm 41) and have been in the situations you describe. Some ideas that some to mind (not sure if any of these would help): * Is the...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
2 points

That’s so true! I never thought of it that way. We should come up with a new word that’s easier to say. ...

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postr/StutterMar 12, 2019
3 points

I'm in trouble peeps

I'm in trouble peeps Obvious throwaway. I have had a stutter my whole life. Severity depends on the day but I would generally categorize it as mild to moderate. EXCEPT MY FUCKING NAME. I stutter badl...

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commentr/StutterMar 12, 2019
1 points

Go for it. No one cares that you stutter. They care if you don’t do your job. Make the calls and talk when you need to. Just throw yourself into it even if you’re terrified....

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