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commentr/StutterJun 23, 2025
2 points

Thanks for the response and the kind words. Honestly, my stutter had very little impact when I was a teacher. I taught band, grades 6-12. I was extremely confident with my subject matter, which h...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2025
4 points

Tell you a secret. Most fluent speakers are terrible communicators. Terrible. I had a breakthrough when I realized being a clear communicator and being fluent aren’t mutually exclusive. I am a stutter...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2025
9 points

I've been thinking about it this way too and it's totally changed my perspective. For example I'm very skilled at drawing and find it a breeze to draw people anatomically correctly – I'm "fluent" in i...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / NeurodiversityQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2025
1 points

I am a girl and I stutter, the truth is that I have only met one guy who stutters that I was attracted to, he was cute I guess. but the fact that the girl is a stutterer does not guarantee that you wi...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJun 22, 2025
6 points

Feeling envious

Feeling envious Can't stop envying other people that don't have a stutter, it must feel good having clear communication everyday ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2025
4 points

Hi :) I’m 26F, from India. I have stuttered since I was a kid as well. To be honest, as a woman I think one added twist is that I am expected to be more talkative and social in general. However, with ...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2025
3 points

You are not the problem, and there is nothing wrong with you. Stuttering is your dialect; that’s all…...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2025
1 points

Stuttering presents in such a wide range, and people are all so different. What are you really trying to find out?...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2025
1 points

Do men care if their wife's stutter? Are we talking about men who stutter themselves or non-stuttering men? If it's the former, many would find it a breathe of fresh air if they're wife also stutter...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2025
1 points

That's a self defeating thought. Most PWS I know have a partner. Even ones with severe one like myself. You might also end up 'stuttering' in sign language....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2025
4 points

Your outlook on the situation is your biggest problem. Not your stutter. And this isn't unique. As we live with our stutter, we start forming biases. We make some pretty bold assumptions about others...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJun 18, 2025
4 points

me 14M

me 14M have had a stutter for as long as i can remember, ik along the lines sometimes its been hard but i never rlly cried, there was an incident, which is a long story but after it, i laid in bed, th...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2025
8 points

You need to tell yourself that stuttering is just what you do. It’s not bad, it’s not good, it’s a disability that you have. I’m 35, I just graduated law school, and I have a moderate to severe stutte...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2025
1 points

he is not talking about women or men, he is talking about himself and the personality he has developed with this condition, which i feel represented...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 17, 2025
2 points

Back when I was in 7th grade. I used to actively participate in the class despite my stutter. I was telling an answer to the teacher and I stuttered on the word ISLAND and the whole class including my...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 17, 2025
3 points

My children. I believe it’s because of the tone I use as they’re small children. Another person is myself. Just have to figure out how to transcend that fluency to real life and I’m good:)...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2025
2 points

Not unfortunately, but if they are people with whom I have confidence, since there is no pressure to not stutter, I hardly do it. Another curious thing that happens to me is that in English (my nativ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2025
3 points

do you have a person that you speak fluently, weirdly enoug,h I have one, it's my gf that I'm speaking with her in English. English isn't my native language. It gives me hope that maybe it's possible ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2025
1 points

1. You seem really grounded - and clear sighted. I was struck by what you wrote: "I’m not trying to be a hedge fund quant or Wall Street analyst. I want to engage with clients, guide them, and build...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2025
1 points

>Is there a pattern to your word hurdles? Like a particular word or vowel that trips you up? Not that I've noticed >I’m in my late 30’s and I’ve grown to accept my stutter as something that makes me...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception