Do men care if their wife's stutter? Are we talking about men who stutter themselves or non-stuttering men? If it's the former, many would find it a breathe of fresh air if they're wife also stutterers, since they'd be on the same page in a lot of aspects. If it's the latter, then this would vary a lot. In general, men are wired to go by looks. The older he is, then he'll value personality and how likeable you are more. Stuttering is largely an invisible disability, only seen when you talk. Chances are he's already made up his mind whether he'd date you in the first 0.2 seconds of seeing you. Whether he'd marry you is whole other thing, dependant on his values and other criteria he's looking for in a long term partner.