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commentr/StutterMay 14, 2019
2 points

Well for me, i noticed that when I know a bad stutter storm is coming I tend to say more than I have to. I become long winded to get around saying the “stutter” word and take FOREVER to make my point....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterMay 14, 2019
13 points

Had a terrible first shift.

Had a terrible first shift. So basically I got a job at a restaurant where if you work till you have to ask a thousand questions to the customers. This, coupled with nervousness made it a terrible shi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2019
2 points

Honestly, I wish I had a magic formula but I don’t. Some days it’s better than others. Sometimes I just stop, gather my thoughts and continue. Other times I find that I stumble on some words more than...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2019
5 points

THIS! I’ve been more aware of how much I do not say because I am avoiding a stutter. Trying to break out of it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2019
1 points

It's always easier to talk if you copy other way of speaking and also do much intonation, but it helped not for a long time for me....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2019
1 points

Man I wish this were true for me. I speak two languages and I stutter even worse in my non native language. I'm actually really good reading and writing the language but when I speak it people assume ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMay 12, 2019
34 points

I got offered an internship

I got offered an internship To see my character development, check out these three topics: [https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/aexqhj/have\_a\_job\_interview\_wednesday\_thinking\_about/](http...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterMay 12, 2019
7 points

Jobs and Stutter

Jobs and Stutter Okay, so I've been wondering about Stutter and Jobs, because i am pretty confident in my friend group with my Stutter, but I'm thinking if I get a job (I'm in 10th grade) and have to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMay 11, 2019
18 points

My problem currently (Rant)

My problem currently (Rant) I have a problem. It may to some, not a serious problem, but to me, it is. Currently, I have this little dilemma when I bring up the problems I have about stuttering. That ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & BullyingSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2019
2 points

I think the problem with "umms" and "aas" is in the long run they lose their effectiveness and are more of a workaround as opposing to addressing the actual problem: your fear of being perceived as ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2019
5 points

Thank you for sharing. I'm 28 now and 90% of the time I manage my stutter well. As you know there are good days and bad days but I've recently started learning a new language and it's like trying to...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2019
3 points

I stutter less on the phone when I plug headphones into my iPhone....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMay 10, 2019
2 points

Anti-anxiety meds?

Anti-anxiety meds? Has anyone here taken anti-anxiety meds, and it has helped the stuttering?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2019
2 points

Walking back and forth helps me on phone calls. Also if the first word of the call is the hardest, write down hello or hi on a piece of paper and read it to start (I never stutter if I’m reading somet...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2019
3 points

I mean you'll probably have this any way, but I keep a pen and paper with me and write down everything. It helps me to take my mind off speaking and to be more fluent...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2019
6 points

Try to write down basic stuff you know they will probably ask you . I have found sometimes it is better to read something versus thinking off the top of my head. Maybe tell the person btw “Hi my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Preparation & RehearsalSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2019
8 points

It may sound dumb, but I find I'm more fluent when I'm doing something. I've taken phone interviews on my bluetooth earpiece when driving in my car. I'd drive around a familiar area, like my neighborh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMay 10, 2019
7 points

Phone interview tips?

Phone interview tips? Can you fellow stutters please give me some tips to lower stutter during phone interviews? I'm having phone interviews for jobs I'm applying to but I stutter on the phone....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice RequestsEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2019
2 points

I've been stuttering since I could speak. It was the same me for me! It's like fear of public speaking amplified. My only advice is to keep talking. Take jobs that require you speak a lot (like retail...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2019
1 points

A lot. It kills your confidence and makes you reluctant to socialize, even with friends. I still need to work on not giving a fuck...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionFriendships & Belonging