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postr/StutterSep 1, 2024
11 points

Stuttering came back

Stuttering came back I’m a 19 year old guy and I had a stutter as a little kid but it went away as I entered middle school. Up until that point I was known as a charismatic, extroverted, easy going pe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2024
2 points

It's the absolute worst feeling in the world. Ive have a severe stutter for 40 years, I've had a double spinal fusion and physically am not able to work. After a year and two evaluations for ssdi I wa...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2024
5 points

The hard part is finding that own decision which best fits your mindset. Especially because I'm a teen, I'm not used to making most of my decisions by myself if you know what I mean, I definitely need...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2024
1 points

No I already told them some years ago, so everyone of them knows that I have stutter. With the one I want to play I already tried to send voice messages but they can't understand cause I speak either ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterAug 31, 2024
8 points

A fix?

A fix? I'm sorry, you've probably seen a post like this alot of times but I'm genuinely asking here for advice. Currently, I'm 16M, I started stuttering when I was around 12 (I have memories of talki...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2024
2 points

Cause they told me so before ... And more .. father always call my brother in things that require like meeting important people , even my brother refuse me to meet with his friends or work in the same...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Family Support & ConflictHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2024
1 points

No thought is permanent! Just let it be. People are gonna forget about it eventually because we don't matter to them as much as we do to ourselves. Trust me It may be awkward initially but later peopl...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2024
1 points

Same here buddy, my father is embarassed of me because i stutter and doesn't participate in social function and party's but he doesn't understand that I don't stutter volunteerly and that i have no co...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyFamily Support & Conflict
postr/StutterAug 30, 2024
3 points

Need advice to get more confidence

Need advice to get more confidence Hi I'm M23 from Germany. I stutter since 4. I'm very very insecure and have no self esteem about my voice and stutter. I hate my voice, when I hear it, I always thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterAug 30, 2024
14 points

I did stutter in family meeting 🥺

I did stutter in family meeting 🥺 My eng is bad btw , Yesterday, my aunt wanted to celebrate her son's first birthday, so he invited everyone to her house. We sat at the dinner table and ate, and eve...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesStress & Fight/FlightShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
4 points

I totally understand. I allow others to push every boundary because I can't speak up to object. I just avoid confrontation because its easier not to speak up to even ask for my needs to be met either...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Helplessness & AgencySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
8 points

I have so much to say to my friends, my family and my coworkers but I can’t. It’s really hard feeling like you’re missing out on your life because you can’t get a word in. In your defense though, spee...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Helplessness & AgencyPropositionality & Weight
postr/StutterAug 28, 2024
35 points

“Don’t speak to me Send me what you want on WhatsApp”

“Don’t speak to me Send me what you want on WhatsApp” I don’t know when this pain will ever end. Im tired of constantly worrying about everything. Working a job I have just because you don’t have to s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
0 points

Check out my self-hypnotism post. Hell, even if it doesn't help with your stutter, it'll help overcome your fear of taking a job. When it comes to stutters, it's a self-fuffilling prophecy, so if you...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterAug 28, 2024
11 points

how do you overcome your stutter?

how do you overcome your stutter? I know that stutter is incurable. So I just accepted that I can never be the person I wanted to be so I might as well just deal with it. In a few months, I wish to g...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2024
5 points

There’s also less obligation to socialize. The group of people that you interact with on a daily basis just get smaller smaller so it all allows you to get comfortable. Young people still have to live...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Friendships & BelongingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2024
1 points

I wish! I could die, i can't continue more. 🥀 Mover to new country but now can't even talk here. Stuttering is getting worst day by day 😭...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2024
0 points

I don't have any because I'm too afraid of death. I'm not religious so I don't believe in anything after death which makes it scarier for me, knowing you have one life and then it's done, nothing else...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2024
0 points

Hey it can be tough to save money these days — 24 is still really young, most people that age still live at home, and people in their 30s and 40s are moving back home with their parents more than ever...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2024
6 points

Stuttering broke me as a child and adult, along with other 'nervous dispositions' it totally messed me up in relationships/work/family and more. What could I do except get through the day and hope th...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more