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postr/StutterDec 23, 2023
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How stuttering can actually make you more attractive as a man

How stuttering can actually make you more attractive as a man Hey guys, 26M here. I know a lot of us men here have fear to talk with women….But I had this thought today…women tend to be attracted to m...

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commentr/StutterDec 23, 2023
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Are u kidding? Girls love it. Especially when they tease you and you both laugh then u pretend to be mad and poke her, she'll either do a guttural laugh or poke u back. Note: dont expect a reaction f...

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commentr/StutterDec 22, 2023
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Good for you, dude! I've never even thought about coming by and starting a conversation with anyone, especially girls :/ Keep practice for it makes perfect!...

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postr/StutterDec 22, 2023
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Trouble making friends, finding partners because stutter?

Trouble making friends, finding partners because stutter? Has anyone ever experienced this prevailing sense of… discrimination for lack of better words, when trying to date or make friends because you...

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commentr/StutterDec 20, 2023
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Wow! Really!!? Now I really gotta go to Norway. I've already been planning on going and checkout the Scandinavian countries. I hear the dating culture is way different compared to North America. In te...

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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2023
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I actually own that book lol! Haven’t started reading it yet but it was recommended in John Harrison’s book “Redefining Stuttering”. I struggle with my self image. I’m on the Autism spectrum so grew...

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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2023
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exactly this!! OP & everyone else who relates, be kind to yourselves. we are deserving of having normal relationships like anyone else. we just happen to stutter while doing it...

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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2023
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I really feel this a lot OP. Like somebody else has said, I'm also quite afraid for my future as any & all interviews just.. end up with my stuttering on overdrive for no reason. Same with frien...

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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2023
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Even when you tell about your stutter beforehand (always do this) their expectations never meet reality. Save time and feelings by meeting up quickly, so they meet you as a person and not a text chat....

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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2023
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It confirms that stuttering also affects on social skills. On my own behalf, I just want to add that people from dating apps are much more picky about the people they meet and talk to, since they have...

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commentr/StutterDec 18, 2023
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You remind me my of early days. I used to be very successful online, but not that much in real life. It worked well for me in the end, as I’m now happily married. I truly understand your bitterness m...

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commentr/StutterDec 18, 2023
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Yes I get you now …. I would suggest trying to build a deeper connection before you meet then. My SO is the one who stutters, and I was quite shocked when I saw him go into a full block. I didn’t know...

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commentr/StutterDec 18, 2023
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I’m sorry you’re going through this. I am too, but maybe the stakes are a little lower as a woman. Why don’t you have any friends? A stutter is a disability, and a pretty cruel one at that, but it sho...

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commentr/StutterDec 18, 2023
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all my pictures are literally a week old with no filter so its not that, they seem super into me BEFORE we meet, like they are texting me multiple times a day, happened 3 weekends in a row now. We m...

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commentr/StutterDec 18, 2023
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Do you think you get ghosted by the way you look or your speech? If it’s your speech than …. I would definitely clue them in of your condition. Being ghosted because you didn’t look up to par of someo...

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commentr/StutterDec 18, 2023
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I understand. I have this rule of not engaging with people online unless ive met them in real life first. And let people know you have a speech impediment early. It probably wasnt your stutter that sc...

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commentr/StutterDec 18, 2023
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Don’t talk to girls on dating apps for weeks. Ask for drinks/coffee almost immediately. You can even disclose that you have a stutter, just don’t waste your time “trying to get to know each other” thr...

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commentr/StutterDec 17, 2023
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I love driving my car and listening to music (combined :D), at the moment my main weekend hobby is going on dates hahah but that isn't going to well, at least it gets me out the house...

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commentr/StutterDec 11, 2023
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I would have to support the same stance. For many reasons, as shallow and hypocrite as it may sound. But I need someone to help me get out of the swamp, not sinking together. Also, I love when he...

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commentr/StutterDec 11, 2023
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Idk i had a relationship and i stuttered, there are sweet people around... the problem is finding them....

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