Don’t talk to girls on dating apps for weeks. Ask for drinks/coffee almost immediately. You can even disclose that you have a stutter, just don’t waste your time “trying to get to know each other” through a screen. Having a stutter is a blessing in that it’s great at filtering out bad people. A lot of girls, and I mean a lot, do not care that you stutter if you’re otherwise fun/cool/funny. I’ve been through the same thing—they agree to meet, my stutter makes them uncomfortable, and they ghost me afterwards. Don’t put so much stock into one person, especially if they are that shallow.