How stuttering can actually make you more attractive as a man

How stuttering can actually make you more attractive as a man Hey guys, 26M here. I know a lot of us men here have fear to talk with women….But I had this thought today…women tend to be attracted to men who can remain calm and stoic during stressful times. Someone that can go with the flow, as well as be grounded. Stuttering actually provides the opportunity to show all of this! It can happen if you stutter and just don’t react to it. Don’t panic, don’t have fear. Don’t rush. Just speak and be chill. So it adds this interesting polarity. It’s like your mind and body while stuttering is going through a turbulence, but at the same time you’re super chill and relaxed about it. Women will dig and be attracted to this because you’re literally showing her that you’re losing control while speaking but at the same time keeping control because you’re relaxed. It’s sexy ya’ll lol. The caviar though is that you have to remain at least somewhat relaxed and with the flow. A little anxiety and fear is ok, but in order to add polar opposites together, you gotta lose control of your speech but keep control of your emotions simultaneously. Women like dominant, relaxed men. I don’t think stuttering is too likely to get a man turned down, but shame and submissiveness will. I met a tourist in my city in a coffee shop a few weeks ago. She was really pretty. I showed her around the city and was stuttering a good amount every so often. She was on a 3 week trip and said that our day together was her favorite experience on her whole trip! As for women, this self confidence can actually be attractive too. And cute if you smile while stuttering. Self-confidence is sooo attractive for both sexes. I do understand the desire to decrease stuttering though, so would recommend reading John Harrison’s book “Redefining Stuttering”, as well as “Beyond Stuttering: The Dave McGuire Program for getting good at the Sport of Speaking” Would appreciate any thoughts you have. Thanks