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commentr/StutterSep 22, 2022
3 points

It’s unfortunate that we have to feel like this. When I was young, it was excruciatingly painful to go to school everyday. Now that I’m an adult, I said fuck that. I’ve been working on a warehouse f...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2022
1 points

Subway is the worst place to go if you stutter 😂💀 I couldn’t even ask what bread I wanted...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2022
4 points

I know exactly what you mean! And I'm sure most people here do as well. It isn't about embarrassment for me most of the time either. The fact is lack of fluency (especially on bad days) can kill any s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2022
10 points

I can’t replace words because I stutter nearly always, or more accurately, I block. Most people try to finish my thoughts, get it wrong, and keep guessing till they get it and I nod. As I’ve gotten ol...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2022
11 points

Yup, I've definitely been there. Talking to some people is exhausting sometimes. I'd rather just keep my mouth shut at times, and that's okay, you're allowed to do that. You don't have to engage in co...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentQuality of LifeAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2022
1 points

I use my phone’s notes app for times like this… it sucks when it reaches that point, but people are mostly ok with it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2022
4 points

I wish it would be normal to have alternatives to speaking. Its a bit of an overrated way to communicate imo. I’ve used notes on my phone before to speed up interactions but only a few times. I woul...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2022
1 points

I used to have my name noted down on my phone whenever I cannot say it. (I still use it) but yeah I feel you. I wanna be able to say what's on my mind not having to write it 😭...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2022
1 points

I wish we didn’t get hung up on, but unfortunately it comes with the territory. I’ve been hung up on several times, hopefully always because they think the call dropped. And sadly, I’m of the belief...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2022
9 points

I usually carry a notepad in my pocket just for times like that. It makes me feel guilty, but it's also a relief. Sometimes I just need to be able to communicate and not take all day....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2022
2 points

Even I was so scared when I joined my university because I was stuttering a lot ever since my visa interview. It got so bad that I wasn't even able to get my point across compared to just stuttering a...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationQuality of LifeHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2022
4 points

I'm a teenager, too, and I've been stuttering my whole life. Unfortunately I don't have any suggestions except speech therapy, which I keep plugging away at hoping it will pay off eventually. My stutt...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2022
1 points

Yeah but come on, severe stutter vs. dietary restrictions or dyslexia? Let’s be real here you know fully well which one is worse and by how much. If that’s your husband’s mindset and it helps hi, be h...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & CareerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2022
1 points

One of the life lessons that I've learned is that you need to take care of yourself because other people are not reliable. That's to say, I've had a hard time with my stutter/dysfluency and at times I...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2022
2 points

Your action will prove that your capable to do the job or anything In life, but If you trying to work for a job that do a lot of customer service and a lot of communicating then It might a little hard...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2022
1 points

Yeah, I can't imagine if there were only oral languages how socially disable we would be... For those severe PWS they would be really infinitely close to mute.......

Social & Relationships
Quality of LifeLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
1 points

I’ve had ups and downs, particularly in high school and my early 20s, but I never stopped going after what I wanted. Had embarrassing moments, days I came home and buried my face in my pillow, etc. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2022
0 points

I mean if the stutter comes from anxiety you could take a day off....

Causes & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2022
2 points

Understanding a stutter and being respectful of another human are two separate things. Fluency would be nice but if OP can’t get there (as none of us will since stuttering is permanent), they need not...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2022
9 points

sending a ton of love and support - you are not useless. I know how you feel, I was you. Plenty of big money making jobs with no need for speaking. Our most memorable moments, sometimes, are in peace,...

Community & SupportSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyEmployment & CareerQuality of Life